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thrilled to be about to embark on home ed but worried about the de-registration process

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squidler · 01/04/2009 11:22

We are going to be home educating DS after the Easter Holidays. He is happy, we are happy and the worst thing about it has been having to wait until now, due to my contractual arrangements with work. But, we can finally all do it.

However, I have a question. When do I send the letter to school? I have it already written from one of the templates (to cover the legal grounds) and I have one more informal covering letter to the head as I wish to maintain a good relationship with the school as I have another child who is still attending.

DS has been 'counting down' his days left and both children are telling me that the teacher is saying she is concerned and 'wants to have a word with me' (we do have a telephone here if she wants to ask me herself rather than through messages via my children...) I did mention at the last PT evening that we were considering HE. I have not yet confirmed to her that we will be doing so.

Now, do I date and deliver the letter on Friday afternoon (last day of term) or on the first day of next term? I would like to tell them either today or tomorrow that Friday will be his last day, but I know that I cannot officially ask him to be removed from the register until he is being educated otherwise. I read somewhere that the letter cannot state that you intend to provide education otherwise than at school - you must already be doing so in order to de-register.

Anyone? or am I overthinking things?

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AMumInScotland · 01/04/2009 11:36

I think you are overthinking things a bit - I would date and hand in the letter either today or by the end of the week, saying that Friday will be his last day. I haven't heard of anything which says you can't hand in the letter till afterwards. After all, you can't start HEing him while he's still at school, and he has to be at school as long as he's registered, so you could never deregister once you were already HEing IYSWIM?

musicposy · 01/04/2009 19:51

I read somewhere that the letter has to say you are home educating now, I think it was the EO website. Because of this, we told the school that the Friday would be her last day and we handed the letter in on the Monday afterwards. The school had to keep it low key as it wasn't official until the day the letter went in, but that suited us - I didn't want a lot of fuss. However, it did give her teacher a chance to say a quiet goodbye to her (as even though we were certain she had a few mixed feelings, leaving everybody).

With my eldest, we broke up for the summer holidays and gave the letter in first day of the autumn term. I did that to make sure she wasn't going to change her mind. But it did mean we didn't enjoy the holiday as much as we didn't feel "properly" home ed.

So, not really advice as such, but just my experiences. I would, however, check your legal position on the EO website.

Kayteee · 01/04/2009 20:13

If you are saying Friday is his last day then it's best to state that you ARE HEing from Saturday 4th April 2009. You are completely covered in law then. Sounds extreme as it's a weekend and then Easter hols, but it doesn't matter. You want to make sure they can't say you weren't officially HEing on the return date. Best to cover your bases iyswim.

As for the other teacher wanting a word ...it is none of her concern after Friday, not legally or otherwise.
hth

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