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Did any of you choose HE having withdrawn from/not even tried available "good" schools?

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CountryPumpkin · 05/11/2008 23:27

DS (4) goes to what would be considered a "good", small, village school, two minutes' walk away. I found out about HE when DS was a baby, and it is something I love the idea of but, due to circumstances, have not pursued.

As I probably could have predicted, DS isn't much enjoying school. We had such a wonderful half-term last week, doing things and taking trips related to his interests, and this week has been a bit of a mutual disappointment to be honest.

DS isn't being bullied, the school is "good" (in the Ofsted sense) and very popular, his best friend since babyhood is in his class as well as other children he knows - it's the kind of set-up I know many parents would want for their children. So I feel guilty contemplating deregistering DS. But I do see Taylor-Gatto's "Seven Lessons" already being borne out, albeit at an infant level, and this concerns me: DS seems a bit lacklustre about it all, confused, uninspired, withdrawn, unenthusiastic, when I know him to be confident, inquisitive, feisty, and excited about learning.

I'm wondering if I'm a bit alone in considering turning my back on what might be considered an idyllic schooling option in favour of HE. Intrigued to hear from others who've done the same. Thanks.

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KayHarker · 18/02/2009 09:40

Yes, we'd begun seriously considering HE while I was pregnant with our first, and by the time 'thinking about schools' was even an issue, we had already decided to pursue HE.

Sometimes it's been hard, and there have definitely been time when I have wanted to chuck the towel in - but actually, mostly those times have been when I've been struggling with depression. I'm not at the moment, and I love it, and the kids are all very happy and settled.

Tarenath · 18/02/2009 12:00

We decided to look at HE before ds was born too. Hubbie and I come from different school backgrounds (he was state schooled and I was private schooled) but we found we both ran into similar problems i.e socialising, teaching not matching our learning styles, being punished for putting effort in and asking questions!
So school for our ds just really isn't a viable option. We don't want to take the chance that he will have similar experiences to us.
Our income is sufficient that I don't need to work so I know we could really make HE work for us.

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