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Please explain to me how a HE child learns and what kind of strucure you follow?

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lisalisa · 02/03/2008 01:02

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motherhurdicure · 02/03/2008 06:46

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Fillyjonk · 02/03/2008 06:52

we are much more unstructured atm. The kids do a lot of playing, a lot of experiential stuff. I am massively pro days spend in the garden with a cardboard box and a bucket of water, mainly, i think, because my own interest in more in the sciences than arts (atm!) and it is really essential to me that they have experience to draw on and curiosity.

there is no requirement to follow any curriculum. unless you are flexi schooling (attending school pt), you are not required to follow the national curriculum.

how do you HE several kids of different ages-excellent question. I have a 4 yo, 2 yo and 0 yo...am hoping someone can tell me asap...

Fillyjonk · 02/03/2008 06:55

(but also because unstructuredness works for my kids. every child is different. )

mh any chance of a link to that gel? ds would love such a thing, we tried just growing hyacinths in vases recently but they moulded, slowly.

emmaagain · 02/03/2008 12:12

Some people follow a curriculum, even the National Curriculum (though I've never met one of those IRL). The big advantage this is perceived to have over school by those who advocate it is exactly wht you describe - efficiency and the possibility of really getting your teeth into something which is of particular interest (and there may well be other factors ruling out school, like religious beliefs or bullying or some sort of SEN which the System hasn't dealt with or all sorts of other things).

Then there's the kind of "strewing" model, where a parent has in mind what they want their child to learn, and they leave relevant things lying around hoping the child will get interested.

And that segues, I think without much outward difference but a shift in parental motivation, into an autonomous model, where the parents provide all sorts of resources and follow the interests of the child. That child might spend a whole year ostensibly studying nothing but football, but when you unpick it, there are all sorts of literacy and numeracy things going on, all sorts of opportunities for art and sport and lord knows what else.

being interupted - sorry this is only half finished...

Julienoshoes · 02/03/2008 19:25

still holding my breath for emmaagain to finish..............

SueBaroo · 02/03/2008 19:27

julienoshoes, breath woman! You're turning blue!!

lisalisa · 02/03/2008 20:10

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homeEdder · 03/03/2008 20:04

lisalisa, this is basically a concern of mine.

ds aged 10 does not want to do any work. He wants to play on computer games (which I only allow for 1 hour a day). However, we have absolutely loads of everything for him to learn. We are not structured at all. DD aged nearly 5 has never been to school, but does do workbooks also. We have maths and english, spelling, geography, history, etc etc. They tend to do a couple of pages a day I would prefer more but that is easier said than done. What is so amazing is how they learn even though they do not appear to have done anything/or much at least. I worry because I still have the mindset of school (old mum!). If like me you are not particularly good at maths, english, science, history (oh dear!) you learn also. Hey, I was getting the hang of fractions last week, I'm pretty chuffed with myself. If you don't know the subject, what is on the computer will teach you or your OH or another Home Edder.

I think I should stop to give you breath too!

nlondondad · 07/03/2008 23:27

The research indicates that all approaches work. So it depends on the child,

homedder - there is some very good educational software which your son might enjoy!

Heartmum2Jamie · 14/03/2008 13:22

HomeEdder, your day sounds much like mine, but my kids are younger. DS1 doesn't seem to want to learn anything, but will do a bit of a workbork and some computer based activities in the afternoon, punctuated by lots of outdoor playtime with his little brother right now. He is definately coming on though, he obviously soaks up everything going on around him even if it doesn't look like it.

We have a fairly unstructured approach, we do what we feel like when we feel like it. He much prefers maths based stuff over writing/spelling but is taking a real interest in reading right now so we are running with it. We tend to follow his interests and try and losely base the things we want him to learn around it. It seems to work even if it is a little slower than we would like.

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