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Home educating from year 7

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homeEducation · 26/12/2021 12:05

Hello does anyone have any advice for home educating at secondary level?

Can we do it all at home ourselves or do we need to tutors as well ?

How many hours a day or is it better to be more flexible?

Tia

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BiBabbles · 26/12/2021 12:43

You can do it yourself though personally at secondary ages, I found trying to do it all myself was causing relationship conflict in trying to be teacher and parent and steps may need to be taken either through tutors, using online programmes that grade the answers, or if available to you which will likely not be until at least Y9, doing mixed education.

When this happens will depend on family dynamics, but I've heard similar from many other home educating families and with my oldest, it was very noticeable how our relationship improved when he chose to transition to mixed-schooling, doing part-time at a local college (a lot of colleges are developing programmes from Y9 or for KS4 though dealing with COVID has means colleges have shrunk or shut some of these).

At the age you're discussing, it's often better if the child is part of the planning discussion and with mine, we created a list of learning things to do and having a block within the day to get it done and blocks during the day where they've free time and social time. I schedule about 3-4 hours with of work at secondary level, normally done in the morning so they're free for the afternoon. With a mixed educated child, it's any homework or course work then what I plan in which means I have to be flexible enough to move around depending on what works is going on elsewhere.

A big issue for this age group is socializing, it was a big factor in why two of my children chose when they were Y7 to go to school (I home educate for primary and from secondary my kids have a choice). Especially right now where many extra curricular activities outside of school being more likely to close in some communities compared to their school counterparts, it would be something I'd consider how to manage carefully. I have to manage my mixed and home educated children's access to others in a far more active way than I do my school educated children.

Saracen · 26/12/2021 23:41

Most of the families I know don't use tutors much at this age, except for maybe foreign languages and musical instruments. They prefer to save up for the (I)GCSE preparation years, where tutors very often have an important role to play - if you get the right tutors at that stage, they will be very familiar with the particular syllabus for whichever exam the child is sitting, and understand the marking scheme so they can help the child understand whether they're on track for the grade they want, and how to pick up extra marks.

You don't necessarily have to do much or any formal academic work in the early secondary years unless the child is eager to do some exams at an early age. Some academically able kids sit an exam or two at 13 or 14 and then several per year. By spreading them out over a few years, they can reduce stress and achieve better results. But of course there's no need to push kids to do exams early if they aren't champing at the bit and likely to get good results. Some kids, like my eldest, do them late because they aren't academically ready or motivated by 16. It's all about what suits the individual.

One skill which some parents say they wish they had pushed in the early secondary years is essay writing. If you wait until they are 14 and learning, say, the content of geography and English literature IGCSE while also getting to grips with essay writing in parallel, that can be hard work.

There are various approaches to home education, some of which are radically different from school. Neither of my kids (now 22 and 15) did any adult-imposed formal academic work at all, but instead learned what interested them. For them, learning was never work. It would be hard to say how many hours a day they were learning; you might argue that it was all of their waking hours. They ended up covering a range of subjects and acquiring good skills that way. This is called "autonomous education" or "unschooling".

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