Hi everyone,
Just before lockdown we came to the realisation that mainstream education was not the right environment, emotionally and educationally, for our two children (7 and 9) and chose to deregister them from their schools.
For context, our eldest was school refusing the majority of the time for several terms at this point and the days we could grapple them in, they went in Pyjamas with the Senco's help to coax them out of the car. The school knew about and received reports from OT regarding their significant sensory difficulties, received several requests for information via the paediatric consultant regarding their anxiety, selective mutism and is being assessed for autism which they ignored. The school have known these details, we have requested help and support termly since reception which they have refused to never placed them on the sen register.
Our youngest has struggled with school in every sense since nursery. They have been on a myplan etc and was at ehcp stage before we deregistered as they are significant sensory seeking, anxiety and demand avoidant behaviours. They refuses to play ball and was bullied and would cry most morning about having to go to school.
Both of them wanted to homeschool and after having them assessed they are both around 2 years behind academically as neither coped with their classroom environment or were supported enough to access the curriculum.
They now have a wonderful Tutor a couple days per week who understands them and built such a wonderful relationship with them both. They have engaged with learning for the first time and both children seem less anxious with this new pace of life and educational style.
In short, neither child can cope and successfully access an education in the mainstream environment and we are hoping to apply for ehcps for both children. Has anyone received funding to pay for home tutors and groups to ensure they get the education they are entitled too?
Any advice, signposting or shared experience would be so appreciated