I work from home. I have three dc. Oldest can sort themselves out, no input needed from me. Middle is a young teen and needs support as has regular meltdowns at not understanding things, as well as a tendency to just not do things if they are difficult or don’t work first time (eg link broken = just don’t do any of the work, then freak out when challenged about non-completion and rail against how UNFAIR it is that they would be blamed when it didn’t work) Needs taking in hand to make sure link broken - try another browser, take out the obvious typo, load it on the laptop instead of in an app, report it to the teacher so they can fix it, complete work, happens. Also has a tendency to read the question wrong and work hard on a related topic but not actually the work required. That is also not fair, and leads to door slamming etc etc. This DC is expected to be at desk all normal school hours plus some extra for homework, instrument, and PE. Youngest dc, around the same age as yours. Masses of schoolwork including science projects, maths challenges, in depth English work, art, spellings, reading and times tables. Work being sent out daily, and daily google classrooms to check in with the teacher. Weekly phone calls with the teacher. It is also suggested they do Joe Wicks every morning.
It’s a big struggle to get this DC on topic and doing anything and it seems everything needs spoon feeding. If I look away to finish my own stuff for a few minutes they will not just carry on but grind to a total halt and stare into space.
It’s a big struggle here at the moment but youngest DC is doing around two and a half hours in the morning, with breaks, and same in the afternoon, with a a bit of evening learning too. This covers all the sitting down doing things work but also the project elements like today we have found out about a South American country, done some measuring of things in the house, made scenes from a book out of Lego, planted seeds etc. There is a huge amount of work to be got through coming out from the school and we are currently nearly a week behind.
I’m doing a lot of very early morning work, late at night work and going quietly insane. The only upside is I’m self employed and there is no one to answer to but myself if a DC mucks up my work or interrupts my video calls.