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DS Year 10, considering home schooling for Year 11

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lullapalooza · 23/06/2019 10:25

DS In year 10 is about to be expelled from his private school. I am considering home educating him with the help of a team of tutors so that he can take his exams as normal next June. Any advice? What do I need to consider? I believe practical subjects eg PE will have to be dropped as I don't know how he could complete the practical side of things. I am in a panic and would appreciate your help.

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isittimetogotobed · 23/06/2019 10:28

What is he being expelled for? And what does he want to do?

creamofcarnation · 23/06/2019 10:31

You'll probably have to pay for exams as a private entrant. You need to know exactly what syllabus he's doing in each subject and the codes for exam entries. What did he do ?

lilyfire · 23/06/2019 10:37

I home ed my 15 yo who would be in year 10. He’s taken a few GCSEs and one IGCSE this year and will do some next year. It’s do-able. This site is great for information he-exams.wikia.org/wiki/HE_Exams_Wiki.

We’ve used a tutor, Wolsey Hall, on line lessons for computer science, a local college and MyTutor website- all of which were helpful.

Saracen · 23/06/2019 11:37

It would be very difficult to get the "usual" number of IGCSEs as a private candidate in just a year. Finding exam centres which will accept a private candidate and offer the subjects he wants will involve a huge amount of organisation from you, and he may not be able to do the same syllabus he's been preparing at school - possibly the same subjects, but a different syllabus in some cases.

Going back a step, is your son very eager and motivated to do this? Does he have any ideas about his future? If he isn't keen on an academic path, it could be better to have a rethink. There are other ways forward besides a raft of IGCSEs at the usual age. Even if he does stick with IGCSEs, he may be able to get away with doing a smaller number of them - five or six well-chosen subjects may be enough unless he is aiming for entry into a very competitive university programme. If he struggles academically - or even if he doesn't - he might prefer to slow down and sit a few exams next year in his storngest subjects and a few more the year after. That reduces the pressure considerably.

Identifying the exam centres would be the first step, as that will dictate which particular IGCSE he needs to do and therefore which syllabus, and which tutor. Be sure to use tutors who have experience with the particular syllabus your son will be using: most private tutors will only be experienced with supporting children who are already getting their main instruction and exam feedback through school. Other parents from your local home ed group will probably have tutor recommendations.

Saracen · 23/06/2019 11:39

The wiki which lilyfire mentioned is universally recommended by HE parents.

lullapalooza · 23/06/2019 12:16

He's being expelled for being present when another pupil bought a bottle of vodka. My son had one sip, the other boy drank most of the bottle. Later on they attended a school event.
They also asked a passerby for a cigarette which the other boy smoked (not in or near the school).

My son is not strong academically. Year 10 exam results were Ds and Es.

Thank you all for you replies. Head in a spin and I feel sick.....I think my anxiety will settle after the meeting tomorrow and then I will be able to start planning.

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MrsMozartMkII · 23/06/2019 12:22

Breathe.

I know it feels shit now but it's not the end of the world.

Find the curriculum online. Research tutors, if having relevant indeeds would ease your angst. You'll need to book in for exam centre, do this on the sooner side so it's sorted.

Talk with your son. What does he want to do with his life? Start looking at the next steps needed to reach his goals.

It will be alright lass.

lullapalooza · 23/06/2019 16:31

Thank you. You made me cry with your kind words but I have started putting a plan together and will get on with it tomorrow. Thanks to all of you for your advice

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Saracen · 23/06/2019 23:31

Right, so if he isn't strong academically then it might be better anyway for him to do a smaller number of exam subjects than whatever school may have been pushing him to do in order to make themselves look good.

You might think about having a look at local colleges to see whether there are courses which might appeal to him for next year or the year after, and find out about about entry requirements. That might inform his decision about which IGCSEs to do and motivate him to work hard at them, if he thinks the entry requirements are achievable.

Another point is that if your son reduces his academic load, that would free up some of his time to spend on things which really interest him. That is likely to lift his self esteem. He has been spending all day five days a week working on academic subjects where the establishment has been giving him the message that his best isn't good enough. There is more to life than academics. Everyone says that, but you can see why a kid wouldn't believe it if his parents and his school nevertheless insist that he spends a vast amount of time and effort on academics and expect it to dominate his life.

If he loves sport or making music or creating websites or earning money, he could spend a significant chunk of his time doing those things instead. They might lead to a career one day. Or they might "only" lead to a happy, well rounded young person who knows his own mind and knows that he has talents which are valued by other people.

With home education there are no required subjects and there is no need to do formal sit-down academic work. My teen learned all subjects informally and did no exams, focusing on her interests of art, sports coaching, and music. At the same time she was doing various part-time and short-term jobs and voluntary work. She initially planned to go straight into work without doing any qualifications. She worked for a short while before changing her mind and returning to education, and is now doing a BTEC equivalent art course. She has just sat her English IGCSE at the age of 19, and will do the maths one next year.

To someone who measures the worth of an education by the number of qualifications achieved, the grades and the speed with which they are attained, this looks like a poor showing, a "Could Do Better" since she is of average ability. But this path is her own, and what she has learned will see her through all sorts of challenges in life. She's a well-adjusted, sensible young person. She's on track to go to university in a year's time if she wants to, and is undecided whether to do that.

Your son can make something of himself, even though he didn't do what his school wanted him to do.

Homegirl1 · 26/06/2019 09:16

Online schools might be a good option, Camebridge Home School, Interhigh, MyOnlineSchooling?

Homegirl1 · 26/06/2019 09:18

My son will be starting at an online school for year 10. Feel free to message me, he was at a private school too, he hated it.

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