So, to make this quick.
If l had known how things would have been for my eldest in school, l would have home schooled him from the start.
Unfortunately, we can't go back.
Anyway, this year he will take a few token GCSE exams. Afterwards, he wants to be home schooled...more un-schooled really.
I have no idea what to do about tax credits, child benefit. How can l prove he isn't working, and just teaching himself what get needs to know
We don't have a massive income, and we will still need the money to help support him.
The only thing that consoles me, is that he is very good at learning and teaching himself what he wants to know 
I am also hugely worried that he won't have anything on paper to give to a prospective employer.
When he did his work experience he did amazingly well, and his 'employers' were more than happy with him.
Although he now "hates the industry" He has a talent for computer/tech Hardware.
So many questions, l have been sticking my head in the sand for ages.
Thank you. :)