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sunday times article on home ed

16 replies

onlinemum · 02/07/2006 14:02

Can be found here:
Too cool for school

It's a lot more positive than some articles I've seen, but still inaccurate in much of the detail.

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KateF · 02/07/2006 14:23

Interesting article, especially the mother whose dh was not supportive. Maybe I will pluck up the courage to take the plunge.
Incidentally, why do children need to study 10 subjects, especially for GCSE. I was pushed into 12 O Levels and nearly burned myself out. I have no intention of the dds doing more than 7.

educatingrita · 02/07/2006 16:27

Onlinemum, I just wondered which bits where untrue?

I am home edding my 4 kids and finding it hard but fantastic at the same time.

Ive only been doing it a year and dont know too much about the law so I just wondered which parts in that report were misleading?

Its a lot better than the one in junior magazine I read lately- it talked about how if parents didnt teach there kids correctly (whatever that may be) they could get sent to prison!!

dottyspots · 02/07/2006 17:07

blimey - which mag was that educatingrita?

educatingrita · 02/07/2006 19:50

Its a parenting mag called "Junior" it was SO misleading I meant to write in to them but being busy educating my 4 dd I never got round to it LOL!

Ive only just found this board, who else is here?
Ill start Ive got 12,10,7 and 3 year old girls home ed for 2 years after eldest suffered terrible bullying and youngest turned out to be unable to cope with school hours having glue ear and mild dyslexia

Runnerbean · 02/07/2006 20:49

Interesting article.

I'm just reading John Holts "How children Learn" and I think it should be essential reading for all parents!

I will be de-registering my eldest dd shortly, she is 7. I've always taught her at home anyway because she is so bright. The other parents couldn't believe that she was reading before she started nursery. Because I didn't know any different I couldn't believe theirs couldn't!!

I'm quite scared at the thought of what I'm taking on, but I'm very excited too! I would love to get to know other HE parents as I don't know anyone else who does it.
My friends all think I'm barmy but are very supportive, (to my face anyway!)

My youngest dd will start nursery in January and I will just see how things go. She is a very different child to my eldest and I'd like her to at least experience the school enviroment. If she chooses to be HE when she is a little older I'll be led by her.

I'm 37 and I live in South East London.

dottyspots · 02/07/2006 21:27

Oh yes, I've seen Junior - it always looked a bit 'kids in designer clothes' (i.e. clothes made by kids for kids ;) which put me off reading it a bit.

Runnerbean, I suggest you contact Education Otherwise for your local contact's details - there are certainly other HE-ers in London ;) although how close to you I couldn't say.

onlinemum · 03/07/2006 08:40

This is the letter I composed in response to reading the article:

"They don?t know if they want to go to school because most of them have never been."

I've never been to prison, but I'm fairly sure I don't want to! What kind of nonsense is this article?

For instance:

"Families who learn at home are formally inspected twice a year, but Mike Allpress, an inspector for Essex, feels some children are still losing out: ?My experience is that a small proportion, perhaps 5%, are doing really well. They?re the sort of kids who would do well anywhere. But the majority are either doing adequately or not terribly well.?"

Families who learn at home are not formally inspected twice a year, unless the Local Authority is far exceeding its remit and harassing them! The only duty a LA has is to make enquiries if no suitable education appears to be offered, and many of them have taken it on themselves to interpret this as requiring formal inspections on a far too regular basis. In reality, families can submit reports, have a quick meeting or whatever - as it is the education that is on offer that is under inspection, rather than any achievements made, there is no requirement to meet the children at all.

And asking an inspector his opinion is a dubious way to go about it. Although then again, perhaps you should ask his opinion on how many children in schools are doing really well?

Yet again, another stereotypical article about home educators as irresponsible drop outs from society. Very far from the reality that I'm aware of as a one time home educator whose children are now flexi schooled at a montessori school.

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can't remember if there was anything else glaringly wrong in it, but the inspection bit is certainly off.

hth

Jax

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Miaou · 03/07/2006 08:54

As a mum with kids in school but a firm supporter of home-edding, I found the article very interesting reading. We very nearly went the home ed route ourselves but are happy with the school that the dds are at just now.

dottyspots · 03/07/2006 09:19

Articles like that scare people away from HE and give the impression that it's so much more work than it really is.

Of course people can choose to do lesson plans, sit formally at a table etc., but I'm guessing the majority don't (certainly very few HE-ers I've met do).

I also get irritated re. comparisons with school - what are the statistics for adult numeracy and literacy in this country? How many young people leave school illiterate, etc.?

WellKnownMemorablePeachyClair · 03/07/2006 09:50

I read it last night (the paper version) and actually it further confirmed my belief that if it were vaguely possible then I would pull my eldest out immediately. Indeed, dh and I discussed it and if they don't allow him to transfer to the linked Junior School (he is learning slowly, which may be due to AS or a missed learning period- we ransferred from a school with no teaching in Reception to a school where they start at day 1- not by choice, but by area) as soon as my Uni year ends in may, I will pull him out and do three months home ed. I have a feeling he will thrive.

spacedonkey · 03/07/2006 09:59

Thanks for the link onlinemum - I agree it's one of the more positive articles I've seen, although the comments by the Essex inspector are nonsense: he doesn't define what he means by "doing well" - if by that he means adhering to the national curriculum or passing the tests given in schools, well he's missing hte point completely isn't he?!

Good to read of some very positive stories

Xena · 03/07/2006 10:19

I thought it was a very good article and am still considering it myself.
What support will you be looking for Runnerbean? or how will you be going about it with your DD?
I was thinking about getting DS a tutor and then taking the rest from there.

doobydoo · 03/07/2006 10:37

Loved the 'nerves of steel'bit.I think that is true..well it was for us when we first started.We need to remember we are conditioned too into thinking school prob the best route,so it can take time to adapt to home ed and to ease off on the child and yourself

Runnerbean · 03/07/2006 13:59

Hi Xena,

As you know I am very shy and quiet and don't really know many other mums at school, so I've been quite shocked to discover recently how disappointed other mums are with the education they are receiving!

I only feel as strongly as I do because of my experience of helping in the classroom.

Everything I've read so far about HE has been very positive. I'm amazed more don't do it.

I've had negative comments from a few people. I find it encouraging that this newspaper article has only negative comments from 'officials' and not from the HE themselves.
Greenwich council are very supportive of HE and it says on their website they do one annual check.

Support wise, my dh is very supportive and really wants to be a part of this. Up till now I have bought KS2 stage books from WHSmiths and worked through them with my dd. She manages easily and has been finding school boring because she is having to repeat the same thing over and over.

Runnerbean · 03/07/2006 14:47

I have joined the Home Education Advisory Service www.heas.org.uk and they have sent me some great information and a list of lots of other HE ers in the London area, Bexley, Sidcup, Orpington etc. So I will be looking for support from some of them.

eggybreadandbeans · 15/07/2006 01:10

Hi. Ds is only just two, but we're positive about home-schooling, so were interested to find this article.

Like others, I feel that generally - particularly in light of how home-schoolers can be perceived by the school-going majority - the article is very positive. Agree that it's the inspector's woolly comments which let it down most of all.

Loved the Junior magazine comment. I bought a copy on a whim the other day - a friend subscribes and thinks it's fabulous - and I was a bit shocked by the designer-ness of it; kids in OTT clothes posing with slightly unnerving attitude. Hmm ...

We have a small, friendly, community-orientated pre-school and village school, and given that ds is upset because he can't yet go to pre-school we're going to give the usual route a go - and be totally open to the home-schooling option should he find school a boring/unhappy/upsetting experience for whatever reason. The only thing that concerns me about home-schooling is my personal concentration and energy levels - I would absolutely need time out!

Great to find this board.

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