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Nice article and interview with autonomous home ed family

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julienoshoes · 20/11/2011 13:47

Well worth a read!
Well done Janet and Meri!

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barnowl · 20/11/2011 15:19

Lovely article, really great to hear the perspective of someone who has been home educated.

wordsmithsforever · 20/11/2011 15:45

Thanks Julie! I love reading articles like this - about parents who have gone the HE route and now have happy, productive young adults (I love your posts Julie, for the same reason - it's so great to hear how well your DC are doing post-school years!)

My children are 11 and 7 and sometimes well meaning people say things like, "Well, yes, it's obvious they're very happy, but what about the future?"

One friend of mine even implied that it is necessary to sort of suffer the school experience so you can get ahead as an adult. Her mantra for her DC (who have not had an easy time at school at all, for various reasons) is "You do what you have to so you can do what you want to."

This article shows that children can do what they want to ... and then go on to do more of the same! A lovely joyful way to live life rather than forcing yourself through the school years if it isn't a good fit for your family.

I also love the way they say their home was a magnet for children - I know so many HE families like this, contrary to the isolation myths. Our own home is always full of other people's children and that's the way we like it!

Kinetikat · 26/11/2011 09:29

LOL yes, my best friend worries about much the same thing, Wordsmith! "How will she ever learn to stick to doing something she hates that still has to be done? Aren't you setting her up to fail in the real world?"
Her DDs both suffered at school despite being very bright and motivated (the kind of kids who drew up their own revision plans on the last day of term so they wouldn't lose ground over the Christmas hols... serious, focused types, bless 'em), and I would say that both of them are considerably more socially isolated even now, at Uni, than my kids ever have been. As soon as my DD's friends finish school they come knocking on our door and off she goes to play (sorry 'hang out').

toadnotfrog · 26/11/2011 15:37

in response to how will they cope with misery if you don't prepare them for misery I say that you don't prepare someone for a famine by starving them. Confident, happy people with good self esteem & coping mechanisms do pretty well in 'the real world'!

Saracen · 26/11/2011 23:29

"you don't prepare someone for a famine by starving them"

That's brilliant. I'll remember that one!

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