Hi, my daughter has been HE since Christmas. She's just turned 6 and has some learning difficulties.
The problem we're having at the moment is her competitivnes and her ego. she always wants to be first, she'll cry if she dosn't win, even finnishing her food or walking from the car to the house. Whenever my DH gives me a cuddle, she tries to break us up saying "no, cuddle me!" If he even referes to us as mummy and Lucy, she'll say "no! Lucy and mummy, say my name first!"
It's always annoyed me, but my DH just laughs about it and jokes about how stubborn she is. 
When she was at school, it wasn't so bad and I could ignore it better. Now she's with us all the time, it's getting very annoying! It would be lovely just to be able to cuddle my DH or for him to say something nice to me without her having the screaming ab-dabs.
She is also quite demanding of attention when we're talking and not including her. She'll but in all the time, then rabbit on and on about anything she can think of just to get our attention back on to her.
I do love spending time with her, but it can be very draining when she's like this. I'm not quite sure how to handle it. At school she had quite low self esteem and had a pretty rough time. She was very aware that she was at the bottom of the class accademically. We've tried to build her confidence, but this has gone from one extreem to another.
The best one was recently when my DH said "Thank God that didn't happen", she blurted out "don't thank God, thank Lucy!" 
I'd be greatful for any advice. 