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What are the pros and cons of Home Ed?

36 replies

nelehluap · 19/12/2010 15:19

I have a 12yr old DD who absolutely hates senior school (yr 7) and has asked to be Home Ed. I also have a 7yr old DD (yr 2) who enjoys school but, to be honest, I don't feel the school are pushing her enough - she's one of a class of over 30 kids which I also feel is too big, but normal.

I'm quite happy to Home Ed and I would use every resource available for me to do so...but I'd like to ask those that have Home Ed in the past or do it now....how successful has it been?

My DD1 dislikes school because their classes are huge, they are of mixed ability, the teachers can't cope and get very easily stressed out, her friends swear a lot, misbehave and are generally quite unruly...even I am not overly keen on some of the fellow Year 7's at the school. She said to me the other day 'I just want to learn' but because the other kids muck around so much its very difficult to hear what is being said and the teachers are quite often not in the class. She is quite often off school with illnesses (she suffers with IBS and is getting over a UTI/kidney inf and glandular fever) so has missed a fair bit of school lately anyway...

I am more than happy to Home Ed but how do I find out about local groups? Where can I get the current curriculum from? Is it the right thing to do for my kids? The only area I am concerned they will miss out on is the social side....character building etc. TIA.

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nelehluap · 21/12/2010 17:49

saracen...i emailed my joining details to the North Hampshire EHO group but have yet to receive a reply...I did it about two weeks ago...

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nelehluap · 21/12/2010 17:50

*North Hampshire EO group...

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SDeuchars · 22/12/2010 15:49

Can you try again, nelehluap? If you still get no reply by the end of next week, please let me know and I'll see if I can help - I am an EO trustee.

frinball · 07/01/2011 07:14

hello - i am new on here and have just started HE for my middle child who is 12 in y8 at school and just cant cope with the environment - he never has been good with school and it has just got worse in high school. he is already becoming more relaxed and motivated to learn after just 3 days! i am sure we will have difficult days - the nature of parenting!! i am wondering if anyone knows of any groups in north norfolk that would be useful in supporting HE?
I have asked the local authority if any grants are available to HE-ers - apparently not - that doesnt seem fair as E is not taking up a school place which costs an awful lot of money!! still we will do it without their help!
be good to hear of anyone locally :0

SDeuchars · 07/01/2011 07:50

Welcome to home education!

You may find groups local to you through the links on the EO Norfolk page.

Many people new to EHE, like yourself, think it is unfair not to get money. However, people who have been around a long time often think that the money would not be worth the loss of freedom.

linksandsmileys · 07/01/2011 11:29

nelehluap - sorry to hijack but we're tinking of moving to Andover and I may consider HE for a bit while we change schools. I wondered what your experience of primary schools was? I have a 4 and 7 year old. The 7 year old has Aspergers and needs a small and caring environment.

montymoocow · 13/01/2011 10:30

I have a yr 8 and a yr 7. Both hate school and the terrible behaviour of other kids - swearing at each other and the teachers, throwing things around the class, jumping on tables and stealing. My eldest is off school today - I took pity as I think he really can't stand it any more.

Interestingly, a lot of the homework they get set is worksheets printed from the internet which are easily accessed. My youngest came home with some homework yesterday and we printed off two extra sheets so he could do a draft first. He was given extra homework as punishment because certain kids in the class were misbehaving so much. I think it's terrible to give children school work as a punishment.

I did post on here a few months ago, unsure what to do and whether to take them out. I feel so sorry for all the parents out there who are worrying about their kids in school. Having home schooled before, I would say that their general happiness, behaviour and interest in life improves vastly.

montymoocow · 13/01/2011 10:32

Just realised that no-one's posted since 7th January so maybe my message won't get read! Sorry!

julienoshoes · 13/01/2011 17:23

I think I have aswere your other post montymoocow

kamuran · 11/02/2011 10:10

i have done more research thoroughly on home ed. i think it is the best thing for my daughter who is 13 yrs old. she was unhappy at school and had been bullyed for many years. eventually she decided she didnt want to go to school. the problem i am having now is socializing. i cant seem to find a group with her age peers, place anywhere for her to make new friends. i live in the borough of barnet, london can anyone help. my email is ([email protected])

kamuran

lilyfire · 11/02/2011 23:01

The central london home education group might be good place to ask, link is here groups.google.com/group/clhe?hl=en&lnk=.
I think there is a north london yahoo group you might want to check out.
I don't really know what's going on around Barnet area and my children are younger, but I'm sure there are people out there.

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