Our DCs are 2 and 4 and can't quite manage adult cutlery yet, but use up all our cute/matching sets, that only come in packs of 3 or 2, within half a day. Mainly by throwing on the floor/dropping I suspect.
Is there anywhere that has child sized metal cutlery in proper amounts - they need at least as many as we have, not 2 pairs each!
We have some hand me down Ikea plastic ones but I think they need metal now, especially as DC1 can't really manage cutting and needs to practice.