Letting a child paint their bedroom bright orange ... would you?

[AChickenCalledKorma]

We have extended our house and everyone is moving into "new" (or heavily refurbished) bedrooms. I promised the children that they could choose their colour schemes.

DD2 - aged 7.5 - wants bright orange walls. We are talking the full monty - think Tango adverts! She is totally opposed to any compromise options (have tried suggesting peach walls and orange lampshade but she was unimpressed)/

The sensible half of me is saying "she'll get tired of it" and/or "she'll never sleep" and/or "she'll have a constant headache". The other half of me is saying "stop sounding just like your mother, if you can't have a ridiculous bedroom when you're a child, when can you".

Would you let her?

[Startail]

That Argos stars and stripes quilt is exactly what I was thinking with the BHS links, perfect.

Then you can pick up the bright blue, red, yellow and green, for plastic crates, lampshades, rugs, cushions etc. way more easily than matching the orange.

[MortifiedAdams]

Get yourself on Pinterest - lots of inspiration!!

[princesschick]

I had a bright orange room as a teenager in the 90s, with the very popular orange / yellow / red check bedding and curtains from Next, red gloss window sill and a reclaimed filing cabinet spray painted in red with alternate yellow / orange drawers. I was soooooooooo happy that my parents let me choose and took great pride in my room / having friends over. I slept all the time (even through some mammouth hangovers as an older teen), studied well and got good grades. In my early twenties I had a deep fushia wall and baby pink other walls - lots of chrome and white and pale oak furniture. So I've done all of the colour experimenting and it's all out of my system. I'm soooo happy my parents let me have what I wanted and let me express my own personality so that I had my own space in the family home.

Anyway, it's out of my system and our current cottage (still being renovated) is all lime wash neutrals and pastels now. We're using a limited palette of brights for accents in cushions, lamps etc.

I say let her! She'll talk about it for years and won't resent you for going back on your word. Plus it means it's lovely to feel like you've got control over your own space in a family home. A little sanctuary to go to with friends / pursuing hobbies.

Oh and it didn't stop my parents from selling their house, although the buyers did grumble about the "bright" children's rooms (my sisters was sky blue and bright lime green!) and having to redecorate as soon as they got in!

Hope that helps?

[Stokes]

I also had an orange bedroom when I was a teenager. I bought new bedding and curtains that were blue, green, orange and yellow and it was actually my mum who suggested the orange walls. It was a reasonably big room with white furniture, I had the ceiling and the bit of wall above the picture rail white as well and painted the door, radiator, skirting board and picture rail a strong yellow. It was a deep orange with a lot more red than yellow, which is nicer imo.

I had it from my early teens to early twenties and loved it. And no, it never gave me a headache or trouble sleeping!

[blossombath]

Good for you OP agree with others who say it's worth letting kids express themselves. Loads of nice ideas on here, too. Good for her for not wanting pink

[Sofi1]

Orange is too bright for a room where he has to rest, i will suggest to paint in orange just one wall that he cannot see from the bed

[Potterer]

My two sons have bedding that is multicoloured but I always pick a colour for the walls from that. So ds2 has a dinosaur duvet cover from Next, it is basically navy blue with a lime green dinosaur on it and I painted his room lime green.

Weirdly, ds1 also has a duvet with about 5 colours on it but he chose the same green as his brother.

When I first painted it, it looked like a homage to plutonium. It literally glowed. But once the furniture was in it helped break up the colour.

I would hate someone to dictate the colour I paint my bedroom, it is the one place in the whole house that a child has that is truly their space. It isn't shared with anyone.

My mate has two children, both their rooms are painted beige like the rest of the house but she let them have the bedding they wanted. It just looks wrong, the room doesn't gel at all. The tones are all off.

Let her have her orange bedroom, and then upload a photo so we can see it.