Skara we went to Paleros last year and had a great time with a 6 yr old and a 2 yr old. You know the t-time before what is happening in the kids club the following day, so can therefore plan, when you want to drop them in or take them out. It is really flexible and they do really fun things, in either hourly or 2 hourly intervals. Its really well planned.
Breakfast and lunch is taken with you, both buffet style, loads to choose from. Their supper is at about 5ish, and I was really impressed, yes there are chips if you look for them, but loads of other things, about 3 choices I think, again you help yourself, pasta, sauces, meats, fish, orange or water, and puddings such as milk jellies, mousses (I always enjoyed finishing off the chocolate one!!) and ice cream. Their food was so much better than I thought it would be.
Your dinner; when you walk in to restaurant you are asked if you would like to dine alone or with others, if you fancy sitting with others, it is with others who have just sat down, you wont be eating a starter when they are on the pudding, we met some really friendly people, but you're right, sometimes you just fancy some peace.
There is alot going on, but you can also veg and do nothing, its a really friendly, easy going holiday.