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First cruise

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OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 15/09/2024 12:15

I’m going on my first cruise in October with my husband and young adult son (18) on the P&0 Ventura.

Any tips from more experienced cruise goers? How warm will it be inside, especially the restaurants and cabins over nights?

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DodgyTrifle · 15/09/2024 12:19

That’s exciting! Where is the cruise going? Your cabin will have air conditioning which you can control. On board the rest of the ship will also be air conditioned, I find it a bit chilly sometimes but I am quite a cold person anyway.

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 15/09/2024 12:28

From Southampton and back via Portugal. I’m so looking forward to it, it is very different to our usual holidays.

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MrsSkylerWhite · 15/09/2024 12:30

Following with interest. Planning our first for next year too. Us, adult kids and grandchild by dithering a bit about duration and destination with a 4 year old.

samarrange · 15/09/2024 12:34

I used to think I would hate cruises, but I kind of like them now. DP is a huge fan of them.

On sea days you may be surprised at how cold it is on deck, even if it's sunny, because when the ship is steaming along at 20 knots, that's like a 20-knot wind coming from the bow (unless there is a real 20-knot wind coming from the stern, in which case the ship uses less fuel and you get a nice calm day!). It took me a while to work out why it was always windy, and I have a STEM degree!

Everything about the indoor environment is ruthlessly controlled by the air conditioning. There are no open windows. But it's not stuffy. You can walk around in a thin long-sleeved top the whole time, but you won't be chilly in a short-sleeved top in the restaurant. (Some ships have dress codes for dinner, but you can always go to the buffet if you CBA to get changed.)

Don't hesitate to ask for substitutions or extras in the restaurant. If you want three starters and no main, or two mains, then order that. It's better than having half/full board in a hotel where you just have a set menu and they have an eye on the price. (Obviously the restaurant cooks have a budget, but your extra food won't break it.) But if the food is good, which it very often it, then watch out for the calories!

It's important (and just generally nice, of course) to be respectful to the staff, especially your cabin attendant. Even if "tips are included" or "a service charge is included in your final bill", do consider tipping the cabin attendant on your last full day — and I say this as someone who hates tipping in general. Most of them are very good, and they come from poor countries where your tip will go a long way.

The ship's organised excursions can be poor value for money. We usually go into the local town and explore, maybe take a local harbour or canal tour (you're always in a town on the water!). But be scrupulous about respecting the all-aboard time. Take your passports with you whenever you go ashore, partly because you may need it to get back on the boat and partly because you will look silly otherwise if you miss the boat — which can happen for "good" reasons such as a medical emergency, as well as "bad" ones like getting the wrong bus back to the port.

Forgottenmyphone · 15/09/2024 14:52

My normal embarkation routine is to go to muster (you don't need your cabin card, they scan the QR code on your boarding pass), drop hand luggage in cabin, (and lock wallet, car keys etc… in safe), stroll round the ship to checkout where everything is (Nothing worse than finding a really good tucked away bar about 4 days in!) go back to the cabin and unpack as soon as the bags arrive. Pack stuff in your carry on that you’ll need for that day. It’s not unheard of for the luggage to arrive late at around 6.
You could go to the crows nest and watch the sail away with cocktails and then go to late dinner and late show.
You are allowed to take your own alcohol onboard (up to 1 litre per passenger over 18) and it’s worth doing this. I think all cabins have a mini fridge, just big enough to chill water and drinks.

CrystalSingerFan · 15/09/2024 15:24

Lovely! Portugal's brilliant and they like the English, for historical reasons.

I cruise from Southampton for preference (although haven't done P&O) and if you drive I would recommend parking with this lot: https://www.abparking.co.uk/ (I've trundled my wheelie suitcase up and down to the railway station, but this is worth the extra cost for me.)

Have a fab trip.

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Lifelover16 · 15/09/2024 15:31

In main restaurant you can state your preference re table size - if you prefer to eat at a table for two speak to the staff.
if you don’t like any of your food you can exchange for a different one no problem.
You can remove the gratuities/service charge from your bill at the beginning of the cruise and tip only those staff you choose to. I know people who do this.

LuckysDadsHat · 15/09/2024 15:34

Lifelover16 · 15/09/2024 15:31

In main restaurant you can state your preference re table size - if you prefer to eat at a table for two speak to the staff.
if you don’t like any of your food you can exchange for a different one no problem.
You can remove the gratuities/service charge from your bill at the beginning of the cruise and tip only those staff you choose to. I know people who do this.

Tight people do this! Unless they go around tipping the chefs, laundry staff etc..... it is incredibly tight.

Although on p&o tips are included in the cost of the cruise so no worries for the OP.

WitchyBits · 15/09/2024 15:47

P and o have charged the rules on taking your own alcohol, so double check if you intend to do that. I think it's just a bottle of wine for cabin consumption now.

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 16/09/2024 18:41

So I’m guessing plenty of layers then to go from cold outside to warm inside. I don’t have anything ‘smart casual’ for regular dinners so have a shopping trip planned.

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Chewbecca · 16/09/2024 19:16

It's generally not that warm inside a ship, the Aircon is strong!

You have some great advice already. I'd say research your ports to see what you would like to do in each. Don't overdo it. Enjoy your sea days, relaxing with a book or whatever you like to do.

Toomuchrose · 16/09/2024 19:39

Thought I'd hate a cruise but just came back from one and it was amazing!! To unpack go to bed and wake up some differeyrbrrydaywas wonderful. Have a great time xx

mitogoshigg · 16/09/2024 19:52

I would slip a pack of sea sickness pills into your bag as the bay of Biscay can be lively (not always, was calm when I crossed last) also ibroprofen then that might have been the drinksGrin. Free laundries on board too

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 16/09/2024 20:08

What Do the guys wear in the evenings for the normal nights? Husband will wear chinos and checked shirt everyday if I don’t have some ideas.

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Chewbecca · 16/09/2024 20:31

Chinos and shirt or polo is fine!

Funf · 17/09/2024 17:55

Cruis critic forum is great for info. Plan you ports of call remember you don't have to get off at every one its your choice. You can often plan cheaper and better quality trips your self

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