From the extensive research I’ve done, you’re both wrong. I’ve never been on a cruise. Never seemed to be one to fit me (I’m 51). DH is more anti cruise than I am. We don’t like enforced group merriment. We don’t have young kids anymore and I work in a primary school so I definitely don’t want to be around a load of screaming kids in close proximity on a ship. Plus on some cruises now they allow kids to travel free in their parents cabin (or at least wirh just a small additional fee) which means the ship suddenly feels very overcrowded with long crews during the school holidays when I’d have to go. Plus I have absolutely no need for onboard ice rinks, high ropes, mini amusement rides etc so don’t see the point in paying extra for that as part of your fare. Neither do I feel I’m at the right stage of life for formal lectures on things like geology, or art classes and things like that. In fact I don’t require much in the way of entertainment as my main interest in cruising would be for the destinations and the food. Food has to be high quality.
I don’t like low quality all you can eat style of buffet and balk at the idea of having to spend a lot of extra money to eat at “speciality restaurants” which to me are just restaurants! But perhaps with a particular cuisine.
I don’t like formal anything. I’m on holiday, I don’t want to feel “on show” or uptight. I don’t want a captain’s dinner, or have very formal “whip the silver cloche off with a flourish and a gloved-hand” type of service. I just want to feel like the staff care if I’m having a good time even if that sometimes mean it’s quite informal. Informal is good, but I don’t want it TOO informal. I don’t want them plonking themselves down next to me on a sunlounger and calling me “mate”, or hugging me. I want the staff to be paid enough so that I don’t have to think about tipping because it’s included in the fare.
I don’t want to be surrounded by people just wanting to make the most of their drinks package and packing in the drinks from 9 in the morning so they get their “money’s worth.”
Virgin Voyages seemed to fit the bill. So we booked for next May There are plenty of YouTube videos showing you exactly what it’s like to sail with them. Yes it’s a bit alternative in some ways but we are open minded and go with the flow.
I can’t actually wait, and even DH is excited. The US short bahama cruises seem to be more party ish. The Med ones are full of all age groups, average age 55 I think.