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Is this USA trip doable in this time frame?

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pinotnow · 08/09/2024 07:32

Before I start, I know people will say boo-hoo, teachers' holidays are long enough, and I'm sorry if what I say is annoying for anyone.

My dc are in Y11 and Y13 and I am a teacher. For a few years we have been planning a USA trip for this summer as they've never been outside of Europe and this is obviously a big year for them. As I'm a teacher we can't take advantage of their long summer break in full but obviously have the 6 weeks (or so I thought), though they were clear 2.5 weeks was their max as I'm divorced and they need to factor in time with dad and downtime too.

Anyway, my school has moved to having 5 weeks off over the summer and 2 weeks in October, which would still be fine, except I don't break up until Tues 29th July (my last day) and ds1 is adamant about being back for A level results day on Thurs 14th August, which I fully understand. That gives us a scant 2 weeks Weds - Weds. We live a couple of ours away from London, which is where the best value flights leave from.

We were planning a few days each in NYC and Washington DC and then a mini road-trip to Virginia to see some of the colonial sights before circling back to DC to fly home. One dc would like to see some mountains too if possible. DC have very specific interests and desires and it was quite hard finding a trip that would suit them both and now I feel some things will have to be cut. I'm also not thrilled about having to leave the day after I break up from school - realistically will have to go down to London on the Tuesday night itself in fact. I'm always absolutely wiped out at the end and need a week or at least a few days to recover before packing etc.

Does this even sound doable or should we either cut it, postpone it by a year (will NOT be popular, esp for ds2 and I worry ds1 will make his own plans the following year), or do I try and persuade ds1 to be away for results day (I probably won't be able to).

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Azure · 08/09/2024 07:44

Hi. That's absolutely do-able and I did a similar two week trip with DC. I suggest flying into New York but flying back from Washington ( or vice versa). After a few days in New York we got a train to Philadelphia (to avoid driving out of New York), where we spent a night before renting a car from there until we got to Washington for the last couple of nights. If you're happy to drive you can go through Delaware, over the Chesapeake bridge then on to Williamsburg, Jamestown and Yorktown. A few nights in the Shenandoah National park is very scenic. Monticello and Mount Vernon. Then Washington. A shame you would have to leave so soon after you break up but it would be more of a shame to put it off for a year.

dudsville · 08/09/2024 07:54

I agree with @Azure Azure, including the suggested changes, and it sounds like a lovely trip!

pinotnow · 08/09/2024 08:03

Oh, for some reason I never thought of incorporating the road trip element into getting to DC from NYC. I was just going to take the train, do DC then drive but this sounds more efficient- it would probably help if my knowledge of USA geography was better! Thank you so much for that.

I've also thought that maybe we could do NYC between Christmas and NY this year instead (both dc have mocks before Christmas) but I'm going to look into @Azure 's suggestion now.

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Soontobe60 · 08/09/2024 08:06

I would also ask for a day’s leave of absence for the last day of term!

Azure · 08/09/2024 08:25

Sorry I somehow didn't read the OP fully. Catching a train straight from NY to DC also good and then driving from there. Depends on what you / DC want see. NY so much more expensive than everywhere else; we stayed in a log cabin near Shenandoah self-catering for a few nights, which also helped with budget (and we had much more space plus it's interesting to use an American supermarket). On a pre-children trip years ago I drove from DC through the Virginias and Carolinas (including Charleston) as far down as Georgia but that was to /from Washington and not including NY.

VestPantsandSocks · 08/09/2024 08:26

Just be aware that it's very hot in NYC in the summer.

We went in late June and it was 31C and very humid making for grumpy teens!

pinotnow · 08/09/2024 08:35

I may well ask for a day's unpaid leave- I teach exclusively exam classes so it wouldn't affect any students if I did that as they'll all have gone. I'm on SLT so can catch up on a lot of what I do at home before and after.

I actually got married in NYC 20 summers ago! I've warned the dc about the heat and they're adamant this is where they want to go and it'll be fine. I haven't really been able to afford it before now and other holidays this year, like October and Easter, are out as they come just before mocks/exams. I think we'll manage by taking it easy and trying to go from one airconditioned place to another/being up early!

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