I'd choose 2:
When DD was older we did Riu Yucatan and Riu Palace Riviera Maya, both in Playa del Carmen, Mexico. The Yucatan was great for animals roaming the grounds, the Palace for luxury.
PdC is fab, loads to do, lots of trips out, shopping, bars, X Parks, history & ceynotes, paradise islands and Coco Bongo's and Senor Frogs!
When DD was 8-10 we went to the Jungle Aqua Park in Hurghada, Egypt. 3 summers to the same place, because it was just so good. The pools/waterpark/daytime activities for her were brill, the accommodation was very good, the food choices excellent. Evenings were quieter though unless you went into town (very close and perfectly safe).