Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Holidays

Use our Travel forum for recommendations on everything from day trips to the best family-friendly holiday destinations.

Ideas to replace Halloween

120 replies

stressedandunimpressed · 27/09/2022 13:39

We dont celebrate Halloween in our household, nothing to make a fuss of. It's just not a big holiday to us and we find it quite boring. Neither of my boys like going out in the dark and knocking on people's doors for sweets - They get sweets all year round and they're not into dressing up much. They prefer their video games to be honest.

I'm looking for some fun ideas to do instead of the usual Halloween things, I've got one or two ideas but I'm lacking in inspiration.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
Cwcwbird · 28/09/2022 10:45

Just to wind up the people disgusted by all things American...

My kids are quite fascinated by thanksgiving, could you have a thanksgiving dinner? As in just enjoy the culinary aspect - make a pumpkin pie etc

cloutneerbeout · 28/09/2022 12:11

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

You must have lead a pretty sheltered life if that disgusts you.

Lysianthus · 28/09/2022 12:16

MrsSwnllyd · 28/09/2022 09:57

I'm confused as to what you want.
I thought you meant something completely different like a trip to the beach or an escape room but then you mentioned pumpkins and conkers which I'd class as the usual Halloween stuff that you say you find boring 🤔

I'm also confused! I came onto the holidays board to get travel inspiration and it turns out that our American cousins think of holiday as a day (eg Christmas etc) as opposed to vacation...Smile

FromageRouge · 28/09/2022 12:21

If you don’t celebrate Halloween then just don’t celebrate Halloween. Conkers and pumpkins sounds like Halloween.

Do you celebrate bonfire night?

Derbee · 28/09/2022 12:22

Well it’s a very strange concept to not celebrate or mark a day, but want to mark it enough to ignore it and show that you don’t celebrate it and find it “boring”.

errrmmm, maybe show how much you don’t celebrate by doing Opposite Halloween - stuff pumpkins rather than carve them? don’t eat any sweets? take all your clothes off so you don’t look like you’ve dressed up as anything?

moggerhanger · 28/09/2022 12:27

We do a bit of a nod to Dia de Muertos (admittedly inspired by my kids loving the film Coco!) We put photos of close deceased relatives on the mantelpiece, with bits of their favourite food, candles and whatnot. Colour in some floral skull masks, make pan de muerto, and try to model skull sweets out of fondant icing.

My kids wanted to take candles and food to our village church graveyard, but I explained why that might not be such a good idea 😆

NuffSaidSam · 28/09/2022 12:28

errrmmm, maybe show how much you don’t celebrate by doing Opposite Halloween - stuff pumpkins rather than carve them? don’t eat any sweets? take all your clothes off so you don’t look like you’ve dressed up as anything?

😂 Please do this.

BruceHellerAlmighty · 28/09/2022 12:28

It's a Scottish/Irish thing anyway really and lots of people don't celebrate it. Why would you want an alternative activity? I guess the opposite would be ... go to church?

cloutneerbeout · 28/09/2022 12:29

What is it with us Brits and hatred of anything American, anyway?

BruceHellerAlmighty · 28/09/2022 12:31

We put photos of close deceased relatives on the mantelpiece, with bits of their favourite food, candles and whatnot. Colour in some floral skull masks, make pan de muerto, and try to model skull sweets out of fondant icing.

CPL593H · 28/09/2022 12:33

TizerorFizz · 28/09/2022 09:40

@boxybox I don’t need your sneering opinion. Pumpkins were not grime here pre the commercializations of Halloween. It wax All Hallows’ night but it was not celebrated by people. It just happened. We celebrated all saints day. In other words, the triumph of good over bad. No one would have been allowed to honour begging for sweets. Just didn’t happen. You only have to go to the USA to see how it’s a big deal there. People can, of course, do what they want. However don’t pretend the modern version of Halloween is anything other than that. Modern. We have Guy Fawkes. The fireworks and bonfires actually mean something in a historical context. Maybe everyone could learn why?

Yes, Guy Fawkes Night (which I don't actually have and issue with) certainly has a historical context. The attempt to blow up the Houses of Parliament and kill the King and the subsequent castration, disembowelment, hanging and quartering of the conspirators.

Makes a toddler dressed as pumpkin and a few extra sweets look most benign, when you think about it.

FromageRouge · 28/09/2022 12:34

cloutneerbeout · 28/09/2022 12:29

What is it with us Brits and hatred of anything American, anyway?

Fear of being culturally swallowed up. The French feel the same.

moggerhanger · 28/09/2022 12:36

BruceHellerAlmighty · 28/09/2022 12:31

We put photos of close deceased relatives on the mantelpiece, with bits of their favourite food, candles and whatnot. Colour in some floral skull masks, make pan de muerto, and try to model skull sweets out of fondant icing.

Yup. Not sure why you don't believe me...

Anoisagusaris · 28/09/2022 12:39

For the usual ignorant folk who pop up on these treads - en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halloween

PigsInBlanketyBlankets · 28/09/2022 12:39

"It disgusts me that kids are taught this rubbish but most have never ever even heard of Guy Fawkes or November the 5th"

ALL kids that go to school have heard of Guy Fawkes. Not that he's got anything at all to do with Halloween. Bit random that you're bringing him up on a Halloween thread but whatever.

Disgusted 😂😂😂 fucking hell

Anoisagusaris · 28/09/2022 12:40

Halloween was celebrated in Ireland and Scotland long before it became a holiday in America .

FromageRouge · 28/09/2022 12:41

Anoisagusaris · 28/09/2022 12:40

Halloween was celebrated in Ireland and Scotland long before it became a holiday in America .

There was wassailling (sp?) and so on in England too, I think. Going back centuries.

TheMoops · 28/09/2022 12:42

Halloween snd pumpkins is American.

It never takes long!!

And you're wrong.............

Sally573 · 28/09/2022 12:44

. Halloween snd pumpkins is American.
We've been celebrating Halloween in this country for about a million years 🤨

HauntersGonnaHaunt · 28/09/2022 12:45

The Scottish and Irish took Halloween to America. I suppose the people on here that hate America probably hate the Irish and Scottish as well though.

And you do know it's not an either or situation? You can partake in Halloween traditions AND teach your children about Guy Fawkes.

TizerorFizz · 28/09/2022 12:46

@scrufffy
A turnip is NOT a Swede! Different vegetable. As All Hallows’ Eve, of course it was known about. But it wasn’t celebrated at all. Certainly nothing like the over the top stuff we see today. In fact the Church, which guided the majority in the past, celebrated All Saints Day on 1 November.

tearsandtiaras · 28/09/2022 12:46

This is a totally OTT response "staring down the barrel of a gun" is ridiculously extreme.
Especially with the ages of your children

MissHavishamsMouldyOldCake · 28/09/2022 12:47

Derbee · 28/09/2022 12:22

Well it’s a very strange concept to not celebrate or mark a day, but want to mark it enough to ignore it and show that you don’t celebrate it and find it “boring”.

errrmmm, maybe show how much you don’t celebrate by doing Opposite Halloween - stuff pumpkins rather than carve them? don’t eat any sweets? take all your clothes off so you don’t look like you’ve dressed up as anything?

Grin all of this!

If you find Halloween boring surely you'd just ignore it?

CPL593H · 28/09/2022 12:48

HauntersGonnaHaunt · 28/09/2022 12:45

The Scottish and Irish took Halloween to America. I suppose the people on here that hate America probably hate the Irish and Scottish as well though.

And you do know it's not an either or situation? You can partake in Halloween traditions AND teach your children about Guy Fawkes.

It's a bit like the usage of "Mom", people can't accept it is normal W Mids speech and has been forever.

Halloween in some form or another is as old as the hills, as is guising. I welcome the addition of pumpkins, getting dad to carve a swede lantern (Black Country, 1960s) was always an effort!

HauntersGonnaHaunt · 28/09/2022 12:48

Going back to OP, if you don't like Halloween just don't do anything. Just treat it like any other night. Idk why you need to "replace" it.