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4 month old or 10 month old?

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CP7766 · 05/09/2022 08:32

Hi,
We are wanting to go away whilst I am on maternity leave. Just all inclusive, somewhere warm but not boiling. Our options are to go soon, with our 4 month old or leave it until next March when she will be 10ish months. Pros and cons for both?!

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LionessesRules · 05/09/2022 08:49

4 months.
Not mobile (unless you are my oldest!), no solids, easy to transport in a sling, often sleep anywhere.

Babies who want to crawl, and pull to standing and cruise are not fun on planes!

LionessesRules · 05/09/2022 08:49

4 months.
Not mobile (unless you are my oldest!), no solids, easy to transport in a sling, often sleep anywhere.

Babies who want to crawl, and pull to standing and cruise are not fun on planes!

SleepingAgent · 05/09/2022 09:37

4 months stay where you put them.
10 months could easily crawling, pulling up and generally a lot more mobile - you can't take your eyes off them for a second if they are on the move. There can also be sleep disruption as they hit the separation peak at that point.

I'd definitely go now Grin

Fivemoreminutes1 · 05/09/2022 11:53

i agree with the above posts. A 10 month old usually has at established sleep routine and you’ll probably need to fit your plans around their naps. As mentioned, a 4 month old just naps anywhere anytime

CP7766 · 05/09/2022 13:10

Great thank you I thought as much! Best get booking

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minipie · 06/09/2022 11:03

To add. It will be a lot easier to find somewhere warm in September/early October than in March. For warmth in March you really need long haul which is expensive and not ideal with a baby.

MissAmbrosia · 06/09/2022 13:45

Do you have a passport already?

CP7766 · 06/09/2022 16:33

@minipie great point thank you - definitely going to go sooner.

@MissAmbrosia yes it came last week, we were really lucky it didn’t take long. Didn’t want to book until we physically had it though!

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ChickinMarango · 06/09/2022 17:10

We took our youngest to Florida (yes the theme parks and water parks) when she was 4-5 months old.

She was a dream and coped best out of the adults and 4 year old. Even with the time difference, 35 degree heat and the connecting flights which took 22 hours hotel room to hotel room 😆

Mumoftwoinprimary · 06/09/2022 17:15

Breastfed or bottle fed?

If breastfed then definitely at 4 months - you don’t need to worry about sourcing food or water for them. If bottle fed then I think still 4 months but it is less of a difference as I know a few families who had problems sorting bottles whilst travelling.

Housenoob · 06/09/2022 17:21

4 months hands down. No need to think about solids, they can still barely move, and they nap loads. I wish I'd travelled more when mine was still under 7 months or so, but it was at a time where travel was only just opening up after Covid and there were all those ever-changing rules and extortionate Covid tests so it wasn't worth the hassle.

CP7766 · 06/09/2022 17:42

@Mumoftwoinprimary oh good point - ebf so that helps too!

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