I think the best of New York is found in the Lonely Planet Guide. I would always fly direct. DD had a terrible experience once when she didn’t. Flight A was late. Then never took off again. 1 day later she arrived. Just pay what you need to pay.
NY isn’t cheap for anything. Restaurants quote prices without tax and you add double the tax as a tip. So prices are 30% more than advertised. You pay tax on goods in shops too.
The subway is horrible. It’s not like London! It’s quite difficult to navigate.
I think I prefer avoiding tourist trap restaurants. Local ones are so much better!
Hardly anyone mentions museums on here. I recommend the Tennement museum, MOMA, and The Met. Choose one! There are others of course! All worthwhile.
The High Line is great and we like SoHo. Smaller roads and old buildings with external fire escapes. THE best local coffee shops.
Get the subway to Brooklyn and walk back over the bridge. The 911 memorial is moving - the exhibition is a bit grim. All the iconic buildings are wonderful in NY. Make sure you see them - at least from the outside. The High Line is brilliant and stop off at Chelsea Market. Walk around Central Park and go down 5th Avenue. Look at Tiffany’s for glamour.
Radio City Music Hall is great for a tour. Wonderful Art Deco building! Very NY.
Suites often have more bed options. Cheaper than two rooms - sometimes! A room will always have two queen beds. However hotels in NY are never cheap! We like the Soho Grand but it’s not very convenient for mid town.