I was living overseas at the time so I actually wanted to escape the heat in summer so chose Northern Europe. But having spent many years in the UK as well, I can understand escaping the rain in winter. Personally, February was always the worst month for me.
Participation in local life was key for me. Otherwise you are doing the same thing in a more exotic location.
I joined a local activity group (hiking) and met expats and locals there. I also joined dinner club which was more local and a lot of fun. Great for my language skills after a couple of glasses of wine.
I went to loads of museums and galleries etc but I didn’t have to rush to fit everything in which was great.
I would suggest doing a Spanish cookery class or language lessons or something similar to give some structure to your time there. Always good to upskill!
I got quite a lot accomplished while I was there In terms of work so looking back, I must have been incredibly busy. But it was a fabulous time for me and I was on a high for a good six months afterwards. I’d love to it again but have geographic ties at the moment.
Tips - make sure you rent a place with a washing machine. I don’t like laundrettes where the machines look unfamiliar and I don’t understand what is going on and feel awkward about asking! 😂
If I did it again, I would be more minimalist in packing. I think I packed for every eventuality but really didn’t need 75% of it.
Don’t pack kitchen stuff Even if it does look spartan - buying what need over there to fill in the gaps in a basic holiday kitchen is fun and makes for good souvenirs.
Find a local restaurant and make it local. It is lovely to be recognised.
Last tip - stop talking about it. Just do it! Book now. Those memories are some of the happiest of my life.
Incidentally, I was supposed to do it with a friend who backed out about a month before due to her complicated love life. In retrospect, that was probably a good thing because it forced me to interact with locals more. But the point is, don’t let anything put you off or prevent you from go8ng. You will love it.