Recommendations mid term short break

[itsmeagain1]

I was considering taking 9 and 11 yr old away for a couple of days (we are in Ireland), dates would be roughly 31 Oct or 1 Nov - 3 Nov.
Options are Disney Paris, Legoland Windsor, Efteling, or perhaps avoid flying and go to Belfast to Titanic and W5.
I would like a day in London if we did Legoland, or a day in Paris if we did Disney. I should point out that both are ASD as may be relevant (but high functioning) - they aren't madly comfortable in big crowds and don't really like very fast or noisy rides.

Anyone have any opinions on any of these options for this age group? Or any other suggestions? Ta!

Hi, I would check when Paris half term is. If its the same I would recommend avoiding it. We went to Paris at October half term a couple of years ago and the queues were insane, about 1 to 1.5 hours just to get through security for the most popular attractions.

Most English schools break up on October 22 and will return on October 29, so Legoland Windsor shouldn't be too busy. France, however, will be having their half term at the same time that you plan to go away, so I'd avoid Disneyland.
I think your children are just at the right age to get the most out of Legoland. If you have the right form of proof, you may be eligible for a Ride Access Pass. support.legoland.co.uk/hc/en-us/articles/360000925292-What-are-the-accepted-forms-of-proof-for-the-Ride-Access-Pass-
It's worth knowing that the Museum of London and Museum of London Docklands have occasional Morning Explorer sessions for children on the autistic spectrum up to the age of 13. They also have ear defenders and a sensory map available on their website.
The Tower of London has produced a short guidefor children on the autism spectrum, their parents and families. The guide will tell you about the Tower's most popular sites and how you can best plan your visit. Visitors with a disability are eligible for admission at a reduced rate and a carer is given entry free of charge. I've heard that the London Eye do something similar and are very understanding of families with children who have ASD.