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Unauthorised absence

31 replies

user1467639835 · 18/08/2016 01:17

So, i have just been informed that 3 very close weddings are happening in the next year. All of which are far away and on a weekday during term time. My eldest is in year 1 in a strict Catholic school. They sent a letter around recently that said they will not allow unauthorised absences. What should i do?

OP posts:
RitaConnors · 28/08/2016 20:05

I know someone who has twice had time off from their Catholic primary school for weddings as they are a religious ceremony.

clam · 28/08/2016 20:14

It's a school day. You have a school age child. He can't go.

Teacher here saying, "Yes, he can."

lljkk · 28/08/2016 20:31

My county has announced they will no longer impose fines for low level absences... they wouldn't in OP's situations.

Don't contest a fine if one is levied, this almost never goes in favour of the parent.

bigkidsdidit · 28/08/2016 20:35

More than six days off for weddings is an awful lot. And aunt / uncle weddings isn't like parents is it? I wouldn't go if it were me. Four weddings in term time week day is a lot

Kerberos · 28/08/2016 20:53

If it were my son I would take him from school and attend without a second thought. Weddings and family celebrations are important events and (hopefully) one offs :)

Ditsyprint40 · 30/08/2016 10:53

Hi OP. I've only scanned other posts but some info is incorrect.

I highly doubt the weddings will be authorised but I would be honest and complete the leave of absence request forms anyway (pop into reception maybe for these). Don't go in raving that you won't be paying a fine!

Your LA will have a code of conduct which states their criteria for a penalty notice. This for example could be 8 unauthorised sessions within 10 weeks (8 sessions = 4 days).

You may find if your child has no other unauthorised days that the absence doesn't meet the criteria for a fine. Or the school might decide not to fine you depending on the circumstances. I would definitely approach the matter politely and positively though.

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