Can anyone help me out here? I know they ARE more safe - and would never dream of not using one - but a friend who is offering my child a lift doesn't always bother for her 2 ( aged 4 and 5) as ''her car is a big volvo and very 'safe'''. I feel like a neurotic twit for insisting dd (aged4) has a booster seat to use in her car as I feel she is safer that way - but I don't actually know WHY she is safer ( OK, I know the belt 'sits' better - but why is that safer?)and would doubtless feel less stupid if I knew...Hope someone can tell me - the searches I have done just tell me that it's safer - but not why