Hi JenniW, My family all live in Canada and I've flown there with my dd (almost 2) 4 times since she was born. I'd echo pretty much what everyone else has said as well. Some other things that my dd has liked on the flights
-playdough
-stickers
-new presents you wrap up
-etch-a-sketcher or a magic drawing pad- better than crayons because with crayons they go all over the place and you will be forever apologising to people when they drop back behind your seat
-use the headphones, she loves putting the headphones on (and off and on and off...)
-small snacks. I used to bring along the meal that she would have missed but she never has been very hungry. Little things like raisins, cheerios, grapes, yogurts, cubes of chicken, crackers. The Canadian authorities are really quite strict about bringing food into the country - I had ticked the box where it says I wasn't bringing anything in.........the sniffer dogs were all over my luggage and I ended up being interrogated about what I had in the bags, threatened with a fine........but all they smelled were the remains of dd's snacks in her coolbag. I was so mad!!
As far as the time difference, it depends on where you are going - the east coast has only a 4 hour time difference, but Vancouver is 8 (maybe 9?) hours. My parents are in Nova Scotia, and we've never really had a big problem with the time difference. The flight usually gets in mid afternoon and it's pretty easy to keep her awake until we get to their place, have a bite to eat and then to bed. It's coming back to England that is more difficut. We've just let her sleep it out once we're home again, and it takes a few days to get back on track.
We usually go to Canada for Christmas but are giving this year a miss - I was 'home' for 8 weeks this summer instead.........Have a fantastic time, enjoy the Boxing Day sales too! They are great
hana
xx