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Why do some unis seem to have lots of threads?

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MeshMesh · 19/10/2026 17:44

As a longtime reader of higher education threads on MS, I can’t help but notice some institutions seem to generate far more than their fair share of threads. I’m curious as to why this is.

For example, there have long been ‘Parents of Durham/Oxbridge/Warwick/Imperial students’ threads, but no equivalent threads for any of the big city unis, such as Manchester, Leeds, Sheffield, Birmingham, or Glasgow. This is deapite these having many tens of thousands of students.

Similarly, Warwick, Bath, Edinburgh, Durham, Oxbridge, St Andrew’s, and Exeter all seem to generate all sorts of threads on everything from courses, to parking arrangements on moving in day. Yet, there are less commonly such threads for the big city unis.

Why is this?

Is there less of a “showing off” factor with the big city unis? Do the kids at the higher tariff unis have more support issues? Are these unis more complex in some way (eg college systems). Or, is it simply a reflection of the demographics of Mumsnet and the uni choices made by their DC?

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topcat2014 · 22/10/2026 18:50

RampantIvy · 19/10/2026 23:36

It's because most mumsnetter's DC achieve all 9's at GCSE and A* at A level.

We never hear about normal DC any DC who aren't super bright.

Mine got that and is at Brum!

SilverBlue4 · 22/10/2026 22:12

HeinousBeaker · 19/10/2026 18:40

I don’t read the higher education board on here but from my experience of facebook groups I can tell you if it helps at all that Bath parents are much more helicoptery nutcases than Edinburgh parents - I have a child at each and the difference in the groups is bizarre

I've enjoyed introducing my husband to the Bath parents Facebook group so that he can see how mild my helicoptering is compared to everyone else in there 🤣

RampantIvy · 22/10/2026 22:31

When DD was an undergraduate there wasn't a parent's group for her university. I think university parents groups are more of a recent thing.

MeshMesh · 22/10/2026 22:56

Priorities2026 · 22/10/2026 18:42

I think the Mumsnet demographic also tends to London/Southeast (look at how many thread there are in primary/secondary about London private schools entry etc) and so Unis like Bath, Bristol, Exeter are seen as somehow preferable (thus "better") even though, as PPs have said, there is no objective evidence that puts these above northern city universities such as Manchester and Leeds. Totally agree the cities are very different so maybe Mumsnet also tends to parents whose children prefer a smaller city/town but no idea why that might be the case.

I think it’s because there are certain markers of prestige that are valued by that demographic (although not all are present in all unis of course): old buildings; smaller towns regarded as middle class and ‘safe’; greater presence of private schooled students.

The northern and midlands city unis don’t deliver on these so much.

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CatkinToadflax · 23/10/2026 08:41

There are certainly some universities which seem to attract longer threads - possibly making them more noticeable - as they often attract a robust discussion about the types of students who do or who are perceived to go there.

RampantIvy · 23/10/2026 08:55

MeshMesh · 22/10/2026 22:56

I think it’s because there are certain markers of prestige that are valued by that demographic (although not all are present in all unis of course): old buildings; smaller towns regarded as middle class and ‘safe’; greater presence of private schooled students.

The northern and midlands city unis don’t deliver on these so much.

There used to be a couple of (affluent) posters on the higher education threads who were pretty sneery about young people in the North being too scared to venture South for university, preferring to stay within their comfort zone.

Your post indicates that this is also true of students in the southern half of the country as well.

Accommodation and travel costs are often a big factor influencing university choice. DD didn't look at London for example, and decided that due to Cross Country's abysmal rail service (among other reasons) that Bristol was out.

Interestingly, DD's Northern university was in a smaller city, had some attractive old buildings and had over 22% privately educated students. All of state educated DD's best friends were privately educated because she doesn't have preconceived ideas about privately educated people.

MeshMesh · 23/10/2026 10:00

RampantIvy · 23/10/2026 08:55

There used to be a couple of (affluent) posters on the higher education threads who were pretty sneery about young people in the North being too scared to venture South for university, preferring to stay within their comfort zone.

Your post indicates that this is also true of students in the southern half of the country as well.

Accommodation and travel costs are often a big factor influencing university choice. DD didn't look at London for example, and decided that due to Cross Country's abysmal rail service (among other reasons) that Bristol was out.

Interestingly, DD's Northern university was in a smaller city, had some attractive old buildings and had over 22% privately educated students. All of state educated DD's best friends were privately educated because she doesn't have preconceived ideas about privately educated people.

I recall these posters. A few years ago someone here shared some data showing the majority of students, whether from the north, the south, or anywhere else, tend to choose a university within a particular radius of home. Yes, there are few higher ranked places that attract students from a wider catchment. But, it wasn’t the case that northern students were less geographically ‘adventurous’ than their southern equivalents. Happy to be corrected though if I don’t recall this correctly.

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