Can a low-energy student thrive at Oxford or Cambridge?

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Another Oxbridge one!
Has anybody’s DC got low energy levels for whatever reason and done well or doing well at Oxford or Cambridge?
Our Yr12 DD is very keen to try for Oxford or Cambridge. Her GCSEs were great, mostly 9s and 8s. She is also very passionate about her subject, and loves a good debate, diving deep into issues etc. Very competitive also. On the face of it, Oxbridge would suit her. But, and a big but, she has pretty low energy, always has had. She has some physical issues, but not got a diagnosis or anything. She also worries a lot because of this, as it makes it quite hard for her to deal with heavy workloads. At the moment she has great friends, but does not manage to do any socialising or hobbies outside of school. But then, she has so far done well regardless.
I understand Oxbridge are both full-on though, and very demanding. So, has anybody else’s DC been fine at Oxford or Cambridge despite low energy levels. We would love to give her the chance to do whatever suits her. But realistically we don’t have the funds for her to drop out halfway and start again elsewhere. And of course want her to feel good while at uni, and not just manage.

The workload is huge. Much heavier than a standard Russel group uni. It does vary by subject but it’s intense and most students are burnt out by the end of term. My dd struggles with energy levels due to a few physical issues, and it definitely had an impact on her, trying to struggle through an essay every few days, ten book reading lists etc.
Also the ‘very competitive’ you mention will add to the stress and pressure. Of course there are very competitive people there, but I think the students who are just interested in their subject and not in competing with everyone else, have a far nicer time.

I think the key question is whether she can manage the workload sustainably rather than whether she can cope with being “low energy”. If she’s already doing well academically while managing her energy carefully, that’s encouraging, but Oxbridge’s workload could still be a significant adjustment. I’d look into the specific course structure and the support available at each university rather than assuming both would be equally demanding in practice. Has she visited either university or spoken to current students on the course she’s interested in?