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Essentials list for DS starting university and moving into halls

98 replies

stripeypoodle · Yesterday 15:15

Hello,

My DS is off to university in September and staying in the student halls of residence. I’m trying to make a list of items that I will need to buy for him if anyone can help with this please?

Duvet/mattress protector/ duvet cover/ fitted sheets/ laundry basket/desk light. Some decorative items for bedroom.

Bathroom bin/ toiletries holder/ toothbrush cup/towels/shower mat.

Cutlery/plates/bowls/utensils/ grater/meat thermometer/ storage tubs.

Laptop which will be his birthday present in August.

Am I missing anything?

Thanks

OP posts:
Canopop · Yesterday 15:19

Medicine and accident pack so paracetamol ibruprofen rennies plasters germolene etc

pack of cards to play with new mates

KittyCorncrake · Yesterday 15:20

Was in IKEA yesterday and they have really good student state sets.

24Dogcuddler · Yesterday 15:21

You will find lots of lists on various sites. Will he need a meat thermometer?
Cork board and pins? Might be a list on the uni site.
Sometimes themed/ fancy dress events during Freshers if he has any bits he can take.
Food items to share with door open on day 1.

https://www.ucas.com/money-and-student-life/student-life/starting-university-or-college/a-list-of-absolutely-everything-you-need-to-take-to-university-or-college

JennyChawleigh · Yesterday 15:21

The charity shops in our university city are stuffed with most of these items which the students abandoned when they finished a few weeks ago. (This all used to be dumped outside student houses but the student union and various other charities now have drop off points).
Just give him some cash and he can furnish his room for half the price.

dcadmamagain · Yesterday 15:27

The Facebook site WIWIKAU is amazing ( acronym for what I wish I knew about university )

SweepSqueaks · Yesterday 15:32

My dd1’s top tip to dd2 when she was going was get plates and cutlery that are easy to identify.

Badbadbunny · Yesterday 15:33

Don't be tempted to buy too much. It's easy to want to kit them out with everything they "may" ever need. We did it with our son, brought it all back and took it again each Summer and after the 3 years, far too much of it had never been used, some things hadn't even been opened.

Most Unis are in towns/cities with lots of shopping options, some Unis even have shops on campus. Most seem to have "markets" during Freshers week where they can buy second hand stuff donated by the outgoing students, or as a poster said upthread, charity shops in Uni towns are full of stuff donated by leaving students. They can get deliveries from Amazon and Argos and Ebay if they can't buy what they need in the town/city.

They can easily go out and buy what they need, when they need it.

Stick to basics for the kitchen/bathroom, and personal stuff. A basic set of crockery/cutlery/glasses, a couple of multi use pans, tin opener, small/simple first aid kit, packets of paracetamol, indigestion tablets, cough medicine (Just enough to start them off, they can buy what they need later as they need it). Phone/laptop charges. Basic stationery sets (most things are on computers anyway, so unlikely they'll do much, if any, writing on paper!) - if they want things, they can buy in town so they just need some simple basics to get them started. Sheets, pillows, pillow cases, duvet, duvet cover, mattress topper (some of the mattresses are vile!). Clothes airer, coat hangers, hanging coat hooks, linen basket. Soap, shampoo, shower gel, sponge, toilet cleaner, loo roll, towels, bathroom cleaner spray, shower mat. As others have said, fancy dress for freshers week, even if it's just a hawaii shirt and a sombrerro hat - no one cares about perfection!

I'd really restrict it to big/heavy stuff that's not easy for them to carry from town on the bus and small/simple person stuff.

TeenLifeMum · Yesterday 15:35

Do students actually use a meat thermometer? (Reached the age of 44 without one but enjoy cooking so I’m clearly missing the memo).

JennyChawleigh · Yesterday 15:43

TeenLifeMum · Yesterday 15:35

Do students actually use a meat thermometer? (Reached the age of 44 without one but enjoy cooking so I’m clearly missing the memo).

I was about to post the same! Both my sons were quite good cooks when students but I don't think they ever expressed the need for a meat thermometer!

Raera · Yesterday 15:46

If you are buying duvet sets, get double even if the bed is a single, much cosier. Also buy bedding and towels in a dark colour (they won't be washed very often!)

GordanoServices · Yesterday 15:51

JennyChawleigh · Yesterday 15:21

The charity shops in our university city are stuffed with most of these items which the students abandoned when they finished a few weeks ago. (This all used to be dumped outside student houses but the student union and various other charities now have drop off points).
Just give him some cash and he can furnish his room for half the price.

Edited

I think this is a good tip. I was recently at a university city with my daughter and there was an incredible charity shop. You could have kitted out multiple houses with everything you could think of. Great quality stuff…

postitnot · Yesterday 15:56

Airer to dry clothes on. I was the only one in my flat with one (30 years ago) and my friends were constantly asking to borrow it!

Watto1 · Yesterday 15:57

A 4 gang extension lead. There are never enough sockets!

Seeline · Yesterday 16:04

Fan for his room - halls are always boiling and windows only open an inch
Tupperware type pots for leftovers

Other things will vary from hall to hall. One of mine needed a bedside table
One liked one of those fabric hanging shelf for the wardrobe as there was no shelving for clothes.

JennyChawleigh · Yesterday 16:13

Raera · Yesterday 15:46

If you are buying duvet sets, get double even if the bed is a single, much cosier. Also buy bedding and towels in a dark colour (they won't be washed very often!)

Or send them with your old ones (you'll probably never see them again) and buy yourself some new ones.

VanCleefArpels · Yesterday 16:23

Students- especially freshers - do not cook as much as you think they will, especially in this age of deliveroo. Plus they will have less space than you think they will to store things both in shared kitchen and bedroom (especially if others get there early and nab all the best kitchen units). Therefore less is more to start off with. Definitely not white plates. Get the cutlery with coloured handles. A set of cheap plastic utensils, one pan one frying pan one baking tray. If they turn into Jamie Oliver then they can stock up later from local charity shops. Notice board for room is v useful - take command strips to hand that and any pictures, not blutak.

mumsneedwine · Yesterday 16:24

Doorstop. People pop heads into open rooms so meet people quicker

ImPamDoove · Yesterday 16:27

They don’t need much crockery or kitchen ware at all. 2 of everything. And make it not look like everyone else’s - so avoid student ‘kits’ from JL or IKEA or Dunelm.

TomatoesintheGreenhouse · Yesterday 16:29

SweepSqueaks · Yesterday 15:32

My dd1’s top tip to dd2 when she was going was get plates and cutlery that are easy to identify.

My top tip is don't take anything for the kitchen that you care about, because other people will use and abuse it and the chances of it being intact at the end of three years is very low. I would get everything you possibly can from a charity shop (benefit also is that it will be unique, as in not the same supermarket / IKEA set as everyone else).

A nice duvet cover set brightens a room but storage is usually very limited so wait until you get there to get any room "extras".

Nomorecoconutboosts · Yesterday 16:31

We have been buying individual crockery from dunelm or b&m etc
2 x plates, bowls, big plates.
coloured handle cutlery
one saucepan only.
coordinating colours not matching or plain white.
washing up bowl to store washing up in the day rather than leave in kitchen.
taking some old favourites - towels and kitchen stuff.
planning to under buy and then top up!

Nomorecoconutboosts · Yesterday 16:32

If they do cook for others or invite others, those other people will also have plates and pans etc.

UrbanSoul · Yesterday 16:37

I'd have a root around your stuff before you buy new. They don't need as much as you think.

shoofly · Yesterday 16:38

A sharp knife or 2 for kitchen. Son over in London staying in student halls. Ikea wouldn't sell knives because he was under 21. Sainsbury's didn't seem to sell them which confused me...on the other hand maybe he and DH were blind because I couldn't understand it.
He got some in an Argos in the end but took a few days

TeenLifeMum · Yesterday 16:38

Dd has been advised by another student that she should come with absolute basics as they get loads of vouchers and offers during freshers week.

i did her her the tefal pan set that have the handle that comes off so they fit better in small cupboards and you can put them in the oven without the handle too - they were in the sale so i got them early on.

JennyChawleigh · Yesterday 16:40

Check what electrical.items are allowed in bedrooms before buying.

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