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What to do when first choice is lower offer?

32 replies

Perfectlystill · 08/03/2025 19:58

DD has all five offers which is great, although most of them are high (AAA) and I think she's unlikely to get that.

Her favourite uni has offered slightly lower, ABB.

What should she do for first and insurance? How does it work?

OP posts:
NCTDN · 08/03/2025 20:02

It depends where it is for. DD had this because her favourite uni gave her a contextual offer. She knew that was the place she wanted to be so it would have been silly to put anywhere else.
Her insurance uni we knew were more flexible on grades if needed, but otherwise we knew there was the option of clearing.

bellinisurge · 08/03/2025 20:02

We had this. She's picked two that are pretty much the same grades.

WonkyDonkeyWonkeyDonkey · 08/03/2025 20:02

She should put the one she wants the most first.

Has she got a lower offer than ABB or is that the lowest?

How it works is that she picks two and if she gets the grades for her first choice she’s in. If she doesn’t and she gets the grades for her insurance then she can take that.

if she doesn’t get the grades for her insurance she can try clearing.

LIZS · 08/03/2025 20:09

Put the one she wants higher. If she misses the grades another may still consider her, even with a higher initial offer.

clary · 08/03/2025 20:12

Yrh what everyone says. Ds2 had firm and insurance with identical grades as his lower offers were not as appealing to him. Figured the second choice might flex tho luckily not needed.

So she should put her second choice as insurance and they may accept her. If you put the lower offer as insurance but want that one really, you risk making the grade for the higher offer and losing the one you want, so that would make no sense.

Tho if she misses ABB (so gets say BBB) it's a big ask for an AAA offer to take her. But nothing lost by asking as it were.

Fluffycloudsfloatinginthesky · 08/03/2025 20:19

My daughters insurance will be higher. She's got ABB from her favourite and the two lots of AAB.

I did read that the insurance also comes into play if the course gets pulled so she would rather have somewhere for insurance that she would actually want to go. She should easily hit grades of ABB so should be fine.

MollyButton · 08/03/2025 20:22

My daughter is in the same boat unless the one Uni not to respond offers low (highly unlikely).
She is working out which of two others to make her insurance. But they both have offered for higher grades.

Rollergirl11 · 08/03/2025 21:47

DD had the same last year. She got a really low offer of ABC from her favourite choice (standard offer was AAA) and her insurance was A*AA. It essentially meant that she didn’t really have an insurance but thought it best to put something rather then nothing. She knew she would most definitely achieve her favourite (achieved her insurance offer) so really took the pressure off while she was doing her exams. She is very happy at her firm.

Your DD should put where she wants to go most as firm and where she would be next happy to go to as insurance. There’s no point putting something you wouldn’t see yourself going to regardless of the grades.

myslippersarepink · 08/03/2025 22:30

My dd has offers of AAB for her first choice and BCC for her second choice.
However she has now decided that she likes her second choice better. Does she have to go to her first choice if she gets the grades? Can she turn it down and go to her second choice? She says not but I said it's not a legal contract! Who is right?

NCTDN · 08/03/2025 22:32

Yes of she gets the grades for her firm choice, she automatically loses her insurance place. She could turn down the first choice but that's risky. I assume it would then be clearing.

NeedingCoffee · 08/03/2025 22:35

You can't choose to go to your insurance place if your firm accepts you.
So no point in trying to play any angle - just firm the one you want to go to most. And insure one that is either lower, or that you want to go to second most.
But key is to firm your favourite.

Swapsnamebriefly · 08/03/2025 22:56

myslippersarepink · 08/03/2025 22:30

My dd has offers of AAB for her first choice and BCC for her second choice.
However she has now decided that she likes her second choice better. Does she have to go to her first choice if she gets the grades? Can she turn it down and go to her second choice? She says not but I said it's not a legal contract! Who is right?

I think you should probably phone UCAS and see what they suggest, if anything. My DS has firmed an unconditional offer so all the others disappeared but there's still an option for "have you changed your mind"? Which suggests possibly withdrawing from that firm and going for an "extra" or for clearing. He is not going to do this, it is just what I've observed. Happy to be corrected tho!

Dresdemer · 09/03/2025 01:13

myslippersarepink · 08/03/2025 22:30

My dd has offers of AAB for her first choice and BCC for her second choice.
However she has now decided that she likes her second choice better. Does she have to go to her first choice if she gets the grades? Can she turn it down and go to her second choice? She says not but I said it's not a legal contract! Who is right?

I would start by talking to the uni she has put as insurance. Don't try to DIY it by turning down the firm. There might be nothing she can do at this point but it's still early days and offers are still going out, so it's worth a try. See if they will be happy for her to upgrade to a firm, and if so they'll probably be delighted to talk her through it and help her.

OP as PPs say, she should firm her preferred option even if it's lower. She could consider picking one that's more flexible on grades as her insurance - check UCAS website for typical and lowest grades each of her courses have accepted in practice. Some have a surprising gap between the two. It's not generally a selling point in my view, but it might be worth factoring in in this very specific circumstance.

Pinkfluffypencilcase · 09/03/2025 01:21

myslippersarepink · 08/03/2025 22:30

My dd has offers of AAB for her first choice and BCC for her second choice.
However she has now decided that she likes her second choice better. Does she have to go to her first choice if she gets the grades? Can she turn it down and go to her second choice? She says not but I said it's not a legal contract! Who is right?

Yes it is a contract
in that instance I suggest students contact the uni and asked to be released from that contract.
But make sure the insurance will still take her.

If she knows now then contact the uni and ucas to see what’s possible. It makes a difference to accommodation allocation whether you get in on firm choice or insurance.

myslippersarepink · 09/03/2025 07:59

Thanks for your advice. So complicated!

follygirl · 09/03/2025 08:11

Having been through this process twice, your yp need to put the offer they like the most as their firm, even if the grades are lower.

The Universities get the results the Friday before you do (the following Thursday). If your child meets the offer of the firm, they will be accepted and the insurance offer will disappear. If they don't meet the offer, the firm may still accept them, again the insurance offer goes.

If the firm rejects them then the insurance uni will consider them. Again if they meet those requirements they will have a place. Equally if they miss, the insurance Uni may still offer them a place.

If they decide they don't like the Unis or courses they have been offered (changed their mind or maybe did better than expected) then they can reject their offer and apply through clearing. Be warned that the most competitive courses or the most competitive Universities might not have any spaces at clearing.

MarchingFrogs · 09/03/2025 08:23

myslippersarepink · 08/03/2025 22:30

My dd has offers of AAB for her first choice and BCC for her second choice.
However she has now decided that she likes her second choice better. Does she have to go to her first choice if she gets the grades? Can she turn it down and go to her second choice? She says not but I said it's not a legal contract! Who is right?

UCAS employs the distance selling 'cooling off period', so is it more than a fortnight since she replied to her offers? If so, UCAS says that she needs to speak to the universities concerned herself and let them (UCAS) know the outcome. If less than a fortnight, she should call UCAS and the advisor there can change her responses.
https://www.ucas.com/applying/after-you-apply/making-changes-your-application-after-you-apply

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Ceramiq · 09/03/2025 09:19

Your DD should Firm the university she really wants and Insure her second choice. Statistically she is pretty likely to get into her Firm and there is always Clearing.

Hhggr · 09/03/2025 09:57

Well it makes no sense having an insurance choice. If she firms the ABB if she misses it she won't get in anywhere else from her offers. She has to go into clearing

Hhggr · 09/03/2025 09:59

I find it hard to advise without knowing what subjects and what universities.

clary · 09/03/2025 11:15

Hhggr · 09/03/2025 09:57

Well it makes no sense having an insurance choice. If she firms the ABB if she misses it she won't get in anywhere else from her offers. She has to go into clearing

It’s possible tho that the second choice uni would take her. Some unis have dropped grades a lot in recent years. I agree it very much depends which uni and which course – but I read recently on here I think about Nottingham Uni dropping from offers of AAA to accepting at BBC or maybe even lower?

titchy · 09/03/2025 11:32

myslippersarepink · 08/03/2025 22:30

My dd has offers of AAB for her first choice and BCC for her second choice.
However she has now decided that she likes her second choice better. Does she have to go to her first choice if she gets the grades? Can she turn it down and go to her second choice? She says not but I said it's not a legal contract! Who is right?

She can turn it down yes - as you say it's not a contract. But there's no guarantee her insurance would still have places. She needs to firm her favourite.

Hhggr · 09/03/2025 11:35

myslippersarepink · 08/03/2025 22:30

My dd has offers of AAB for her first choice and BCC for her second choice.
However she has now decided that she likes her second choice better. Does she have to go to her first choice if she gets the grades? Can she turn it down and go to her second choice? She says not but I said it's not a legal contract! Who is right?

What unis and subjects? If you turn it down, the insurance doesn't have to accept you.

poetryandwine · 09/03/2025 12:25

I agree with everyone that in the unusual situation of OP’s DD she should Firm her first choice.

But speaking as a former admissions tutor I don’t understand why everyone is saying to Insure her second choice. If DD misses her Firm, she will have missed the others by some way.

I agree there is no point Insuring someplace she would not attend, but that decision should not be taken through today’s relatively optimistic (with good reason) perspective. In this scenario, the only choices only matter if something goes very badly wrong.

I think DD should look at the admissions histories of those choices she could see herself attending if she misses her Firm by one or two grades, and Insure the one that has recently shown the most flex.

The (perfectly fine) alternatives are to use Clearing or to take a gap year and resit.

poetryandwine · 09/03/2025 12:26

Edit: the other choices only matter….

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