Ds dropped out of school halfway through sixth form - he had severe depression as well as dealing with ASD/dyspraxia. He’d had a statement since he was 4 which latterly got converted into an EHCP but he didn’t get the support he needed to be able to stay in education. He managed to get 7 GCSEs - mostly Bs and Cs with - but for a variety of reasons could not cope with a-levels.
The following year he tried doing a B-Tec but still couldn’t cope and he dropped out of the course after a few weeks. Since then he’s been on a couple of courses for SEN pupils, had a temporary job on the census and then got a placement at a not-for-profit as part of a scheme helping young people with ASD into employment. He lasted around 9 months - it all seemed to be going well but then he just stopped going to work or communicating.
For the last 7 years he’s been struggling with bouts of severe depression during which he does nothing and sees no one. Last October he moved back home - he’d moved into a shared house when his dad and I moved out of London but when he stopped working he had no way of paying the rent so we were having to bail him out. Two days after he moved home DH died completely unexpectedly which again sent his mood plummeting.
He’s gradually been coming out of this latest slump and for the first time in a long time he’s started talking about the future. He would like to do computer science at university and then work in games programming but he has no idea how to get started. I don’t think going back to college and trying A-levels again would be right for him but I’m not sure if he’s eligible for access to HE courses etc To complicate matters we live very rurally and he doesn’t drive yet. Are there careers advisors who’d be able to take him through the various options and help him work out what’s feasible? He’s 24 and currently on disability benefits.