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Please help - maternity discrimination

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IfYouLikePinaColadaaa · 02/03/2024 09:02

Hi,

I’m in the final year of a work sponsored degree and have my final exams in May. I became pregnant in summer 2022, and had a horrific pregnancy with lots of complication and was signed off work for most of it, so I missed the tuition for most of the academic year 2022-23. I then went on maternity leave in February 2023, and am due to return in a few weeks.

My preference would’ve been to repeat the final year starting this September, but was informed that would not be possible. This left me with no option but to self teach the final year while on maternity, which has been pretty disastrous as you can imagine, and I’m quite behind.

I decided to spend my savings on some tuition to help me along, and because I’m a bit too honest, mentioned this in a catch up meeting with the university. They ummmmed and ahhhhhhd over whether this was acceptable because it may raise ‘integrity issues’ even though I made it very clear the tuition is with a reputable provider and would stop weeks before the final assessments.

I’ve had virtually no tuition for the final year modules and am now expected to walk in after maternity and take the exams. Without some extra help and guidance I will fail - it’s a heavy subject and not the kind of thing you can wing.

What would you do? What are my rights here? I feel very defeated by the whole thing and being made to feel I’m doing something wrong, when I’m just trying to make up for the lack of teaching and guidance on their part.

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Teacupsandrollups · 02/03/2024 09:05

You’ve already had the tuition?

IfYouLikePinaColadaaa · 02/03/2024 09:16

Not yet, it’s due to start tomorrow.

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ColleenDonaghy · 02/03/2024 09:21

Why can't you take a leave of absence for your maternity leave?

Can you defer for health reasons? You could get a letter from your GP saying you're unable to sit the exams due to stress/anxiety etc. Check the regs to make sure the letter says exactly what you need it to.

Iudncuewbccgrcb · 02/03/2024 09:31

Who said it wouldn't be possible to defer until after maternity leave, the university or your employer?

IfYouLikePinaColadaaa · 02/03/2024 09:39

Both came to this conclusion as the course is being discontinued after this academic year, so there would be no cohort for me to join. I think I can get through them if I’m allowed some help, but not without.

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IfYouLikePinaColadaaa · 02/03/2024 15:59

Bumping…

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burnoutbabe · 02/03/2024 16:06

How are they saying the tutoring would be cheating?

Surely you have access to the videos or lectures from last year so can watch them but you don't have anyone to have tutorials with? To check you are correct? Can't you use the current lecturer so do separate tutorials to catch up? (Revision ones for other students?)

What sort of course is it? Like accounting maybe? As can't think of many degrees with equivalent outside tutors? Maybe law but then it would be very easy to switch courses as they are mostly regulated.

IfYouLikePinaColadaaa · 02/03/2024 16:18

Yes it’s along the finance/accounting lines. They left the materials online for me then basically said ‘email if you need anything’ but no offer of catch up tutorials or anything like that. I have gone through the materials and think I understand them but that isn’t the same as sitting with somebody face to face and going through things. All I want is somebody to recap what I’ve learned so I know I’ve understood it correctly and mark a couple of past papers so I can see I’m heading in the right direction.

thanks for all replies by the way much appreciated

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