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Has anyone bought a uni house for their student child?

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EeesandWhizz · 27/09/2023 10:51

Back in the 90's a few of my friends parents bought a house for them while they were at university. Friends moved in and essentially paid the mortgage, bills were split and the houses sold again after 3 years (making a tidy profit).

Is this still a thing? Is it still possible for friends to share a house in a lodger type of agreement? Do you know of anyone that has done it or have you/are you?

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Spaghettihulahoops · 27/09/2023 22:20

GodessOfThunder · 27/09/2023 21:31

I know someone who did - a very exploitative practice!

Why is it worse than paying any other landlord?

Yetanothernewname101 · 27/09/2023 23:55

We did, about 8 years ago now, once the younger child was going to be in the same city as older sibling. House went in both their names and they rented a room out to a friend while they were at uni.
We did homework and bought in a nice-ish area so it would be suitable still once they'd left uni and that worked out okay. One stayed in uni city for work and bought sibling out of their half as they had moved away.
We made sure both kids knew how fortunate and privileged they were to be in this situation...

Cornishclio · 28/09/2023 00:04

We bought a flat for my DD when she was doing a PhD. Only her that lived there though and her bursary covered the mortgage. She lived there for 6 years in the end and sold it for a profit. Saved a fortune in rent. It was in the Midlands so not that expensive,

SkiingIsHeaven · 28/09/2023 00:24

My friend's parents did it for her. She got really stressed out when they missed a payment and her parents told her to ask them for the money. She hated the responsibility because she didn't want to upset her parents or her friends.

FormerlySpeckledyHen · 28/09/2023 06:15

We offered this to both of our sons but neither wanted the responsibility of being the owners son. They wanted to be equal, as well as starting off in halls to meet people and settle into uni life.

TizerorFizz · 28/09/2023 07:57

Both of our Dc started in halls. Difficult to get other tenants if you don’t. Although Dc had each other from y2 but both had friends by then and we didn’t become landlords to others.

Sparklynewname · 28/09/2023 11:53

We’re currently buying for DD and her boyfriend to move into. It’s horrendously stressful because term has started already and they still can’t move in as probate hasn’t been granted. There is no end in sight and we have spent thousands to get to this point.

GodessOfThunder · 28/09/2023 12:23

Spaghettihulahoops · 27/09/2023 22:20

Why is it worse than paying any other landlord?

It’s not literally, but getting your mates to basically give you/your parents many thousands smells bad.

Spaghettihulahoops · 28/09/2023 12:33

@GodessOfThunder i think as long as you are a good landlord and keep everything in good order I don’t get your argument.

Mylovelygreendress · 28/09/2023 12:41

My parents bought a flat for my DB in the 1970s but not me !

GodessOfThunder · 28/09/2023 12:55

Spaghettihulahoops · 28/09/2023 12:33

@GodessOfThunder i think as long as you are a good landlord and keep everything in good order I don’t get your argument.

Most of the other housemates whose parents can’t afford this will be thinking the DC’s owner is a bit of a c*unt though. That’s my argument.

Spaghettihulahoops · 28/09/2023 14:03

@GodessOfThunder unless you think all landlords are cunts I don’t get your argument.

GodessOfThunder · 28/09/2023 15:12

Spaghettihulahoops · 28/09/2023 14:03

@GodessOfThunder unless you think all landlords are cunts I don’t get your argument.

A landlord usually isn’t a mate. We don’t usually profit from our mates. You’re thinking of this too rationally and missing the interpersonal factors.

I’m not saying this is necessarily enough not to buy, but it a dynamic I’ve observed. Perhaps you’re just so loaded, with a few hundred grand lying around that you’ve not interacted much with people who don’t.

sarsaparillatree · 28/09/2023 15:56

GodessOfThunder · 28/09/2023 15:12

A landlord usually isn’t a mate. We don’t usually profit from our mates. You’re thinking of this too rationally and missing the interpersonal factors.

I’m not saying this is necessarily enough not to buy, but it a dynamic I’ve observed. Perhaps you’re just so loaded, with a few hundred grand lying around that you’ve not interacted much with people who don’t.

People who share student houses aren't necessarily mates. When my son was at uni he was only proper friends with 2 out of the 6 he shared with.

GodessOfThunder · 28/09/2023 16:04

sarsaparillatree · 28/09/2023 15:56

People who share student houses aren't necessarily mates. When my son was at uni he was only proper friends with 2 out of the 6 he shared with.

Everyone I knew shared with good mates.

sarsaparillatree · 28/09/2023 18:08

GodessOfThunder · 28/09/2023 16:04

Everyone I knew shared with good mates.

LOL - maybe it depends on which course you are doing? DS, like me, is a geek and was doing computer graphics (his main hobby was anime and manga). You get to know people, but you aren't necessarily bosom friends.

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