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University kit list

68 replies

Runningincircles · 30/12/2022 14:41

If everything goes to plan, my DS will be going to University this September.

I'm trying to spread the cost of preparing for this. I bought a few things from Sainsbury's sale this morning and a I've made a list of things that I think he will need. I will try to get some things from charity shops.
Can you think of any things to add to the list?

Plates
Bowls
Mugs
✓ Cutlery
Pans 2-3
✓ Frying pan
✓ Wok
✓ Baking tray
Pizza tray
✓ Tin opener
Bucket
Bin
Laundry basket
Dust pan & brush
Bin
Knifes
Printer
Printer Paper
Stationery
First aid kit
Paracetamol
Ibuprofen
Condoms
Duvet
Pillows

OP posts:
PhotoDad · 02/01/2023 12:24

My DD took down bedding, clothes, toiletries, laptop, and very basic plates/mugs/cutlery. She got other things as she needed them, from Wilko or charity shops. If your DC goes to a city-centre uni rather than a remote campus, that can save clogging up a small room with things!

SebastiansLeg · 03/01/2023 12:03

Best thing Ds says he got was a pan with a draining lid, great for pasta. His is from Lakeland and has a deep lid with straining holes.

Ds found the best way to work out what he needed was to make a list for each room in our house to see what he used, ie kitchen, he opened the cupboards and worked out what he needed including a chopping board, Spongematic washing up sponge thing, plus the washing up liquid, tea towels, tin opener, not every can has a ringpull, he sacked off garlic press as it is easier at uni to have a tube of garlic paste rather than bulbs of garlic. Kitchen cleaning spray too.

Same with his bedroom, we don't have spare sets so he bought new ones, double duvet that can be washed and tumble dried, same pillow as home and a blanket throw in case of cold nights. His bedroom list included hair brush, deodorant etc.

The bathroom included his razor, shaving gel, nail clippers, toothbrush and toothpaste, towels, bath mat but he was in an en-suite room at uni and we knew his bed size too, a small double, an arse for a fitted sheet size.

As Ds could come home mid-term we needed him to have everything here rather than having to bring it back with him so he has a hairbrush here and one at uni.

We sent Ds with a box of spices/herbs, salt and pepper grinder. He loves food and cooking.

Ds also washed up immediately after cooking, dried everything and put it back in his locked cupboard because some of the other students he lived with were like pigs so he knew they would nick his clean stuff given half a chance. They had one base unit cupboard that was a 50cm wide one and one wall cupboard each in a purpose built accommodation block. The wall one was used for food, the base one for the one pan, one frying pan, plates, bowls, cutlery, tupperware (or lock and lock these days) he had 1 shelf in a 50cm wide fridge and one freezer drawer. He has done much better this year with a shelf and a half!

Phos · 05/01/2023 11:13

leftitabitlate22 · 02/01/2023 12:17

@Phos at a recent open day the flat we looked in had one small top and one small bottom cupboard per student and two fridge/freezers between 12. It was half a shelf in fridge and freezer each.

Wow that's not great is it. No wonder students do often live on sandwiches and super noodles!

cosmiccosmos · 05/01/2023 15:42

Honestly don't buy everything new! Most of DCs stuff was spare stuff from home. I preferred to buy myself a new pan and give her one of my old ones.

One thing that's been handy is one of those over door hangers. Plus boxes that fit under the bed with lids.

Greatly · 05/01/2023 16:01

Won't need a printer
Will need a decent laptop
A warm coat ie North Face
Pret/Starbucks gift card
Good quality mattress topper
Mine took their existing duvets and pillows

PritiPatelsMaker · 09/01/2023 22:39

Thank you @SebastiansLeg. That's very helpful Wink

SebastiansLeg · 09/01/2023 22:53

@PritiPatelsMaker you're welcome. It made sense for him to work out what he assumed would be there, like a pair of tongs for turning his meatballs Grin We sent him with a first aid kit, tweezers, scissors and a tape measure so if he wanted to buy something he could make sure it fits first. He had a list divided into sections for each room. Once he knew what space he had he bought a teeny slow cooker! The boy loves food.

PritiPatelsMaker · 09/01/2023 22:57

My DS loves cooking and eating so that's probably why I found your post so helpful.

He visited a DF at Uni last term and cooked him Carbonara.

BeBesideTheSea · 09/01/2023 23:07

A couple of 4-socket extension leads - there are never enough sockets and they are often in wired places.

BeBesideTheSea · 09/01/2023 23:08

Weird

PritiPatelsMaker · 09/01/2023 23:10

That's a good tip as well @BeBesideTheSea. Thank you Wink

DillDanding · 09/01/2023 23:16

Don’t bother with a printer. Really not necessary. Nor, as I did, buy loads of folders. They do everything online.

But the best mattress topper you can. But wait until you know the size of the bed.

Buy unusual coloured/patterned cutlery if self-catering, so their own is easily identifiable.

Assume you won’t get your deposit back. I’ve so far paid for 4 years of deposits and never had one back 😂

DillDanding · 09/01/2023 23:18

…my son has a nutribullet and a slow cooker at uni and uses them both daily.

Lily999888 · 12/01/2023 11:41

Washing up bowl, if only to store all the dirty stuff in! Blue ikea bags perfect for laundry bag or pop up laundry basket. Also, collapsible clothes airer.

euff · 12/01/2023 11:43

@DillDanding is that because it was paid back to your DC or because they weren't given it back at all?

DillDanding · 12/01/2023 18:02

No, not given back at all.

NeuroWasabi · 12/01/2023 18:46

You may want to save money by buying from charity shops, but I'd also argue that this is a great opportunity for your son to learn some life skills and independence.

Perhaps you could gift him some useful items, but also let him pay for other things on his own. If he doesn't work, you can figure out a ballpark figure for the cheapest options, give him the money for that and let him research and plan the purchases himself.

You could make sure he knows how to do chores and look after his finances, also maybe pay him to be your housemaid for a few weeks so he understands what's involved in living independently. A lot of men are awful when it comes to looking after themselves, their home and property and looking after another person. You will be doing him a great service, teaching him skills for how to be a good partner and adult. Plus then you won't worry about him being alone, knowing he can look after himself.

Adviceneeded200 · 12/01/2023 19:01

Chances are they'll be going to a city bigger than where you live..save money and let them buy what they need. It's the start to be independent, budgeting and making choices.

Often there isn't much room so don't send him with a full kitchen! Let him go with the flow - he will survive!

We dug out what we had as spares in the house and the old single bedding, but not until.the summer when my daughter knew what her accommodation was like and what the size of the bed was. She had one food cupboard and one base unit cupboard. She only took a handful of things and bought just a few more.

Just chill. By all.means put some £££ away but don't buy as it may end up be a waste

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