Some excellent advise here.
suspect ds has been burying his head in the sand about this in the hope he’d be able to turn it around and not admit he was being overstretched.
I stressed to him how much more difficult y2 is to y1 as he found y1 really easy, but hey - what do I know?
also think he didn’t prioritize his education over going to the gym, working p/t, plus socializing, hobbies etc. I know you have to strike a balance, but giving enough time etc to the most important thing is key.
was reading an article the other week which said a lot of y2 students have struggled this year as their 1st year was all online.
ds had stated he preferred doing online lectures as he could pause, rewind it etch while taking notes. But it’s not just about that. It’s important to interact personally in lectures with other students, with the tutor etc, not just siting in your room staring at a screen.
he was doing electrical and electronic engineering and I didn’t think he as enjoying it v much as there was surprisingly little lab work (which is the bit he really enjoys).
all in all, he needs to come up with a plan in the next few days after talking to careers advice, whether that’s moving to a different Uni with slightly less academic work and with a more practical element, maybe doing an apprenticeship, taking a year out (I’m def not in favour of this as think it’s harder to go back).
and of course we’ll support him whatever he chooses to do (and have made this clear to him). We just want him to be happy and for him to do something he enjoys (in regard to work), which given the choice isn’t what we’d all like?