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How did your dc chose their degree, and (answer honestly) has it proven to be the right choice?

103 replies

LimitIsUp · 26/07/2022 15:27

Just that really

Interested to know how your dc decided what they wanted to study for a degree and whether they think they have made the right choice, since ds is currently drawing a blank

OP posts:
QuebecBagnet · 26/07/2022 19:30

Dd chose architecture. She’s since admitted she said it to friends when she was 13yo because she thought it sounded cool. I’m not sure it was the right choice, neither of us appreciated how much work was involved in the degree, the work load is insane.

She’s about to start year 3, so that will be the actual degree done but then another 4 years to become a qualified architect (3 years uni and 1 year placement). I have a feeling she might quit after the three years and to be honest I won’t be upset if that’s the case.

BestIsWest · 26/07/2022 19:38

Both mine did subjects they loved.
DD - always loved History so it was always going to be her degree subject. She has a good but unrelated career but still loves the subject and may yet go back to it.
DS - creative arts subject, something he excelled at in school and now works in the industry.

Huntswomanonthemove · 26/07/2022 19:42

Chose on the basis of the subject they liked and were good at.

NanaNelly · 26/07/2022 19:50

One of my children chose her degree course for God only knows what reason. She ended up hating it and switched to teaching at the end of her first year. It’s what she should have done all along. Everyone could see that. Everyone except her. It meant taking our advice but she now has a really good career and also has her Masters. She loves her job but had to go her own way initially to find what she should have done all along.

Dreikanter · 26/07/2022 22:02

DS1 chose Chem Eng because he liked maths and chemistry, and chemical engineers work in a huge range of industries. There was a passing “should I do medicine, the world always needs doctors” but that lasted about a week. He’s now working in a growing field with interesting people and really enjoying it (and it’s a great company with impressive career progression and stunning benefits).

I remember him telling me that he’d applied for something a bit left field but he thought it would be really interesting - and he’s not wrong. It was the only job he applied for that enthused him.

Oldowl · 26/07/2022 22:03

My DS had no idea what he wanted to study and if indeed he wanted to go to university. It was a chance conversation whilst on holiday that he (and we) discovered where his passions lie. When we got home we researched if there were degrees in his chosen subject and found the perfect course at the perfect university (location-wise). Niche degree, DS loves it!

Holidaydreamingagain · 26/07/2022 22:15

DS wanted a degree which was traditionally academic and wanted it from a traditional RG university so that he could keep open as many doors as possible. He wanted to make sure he was suitably equipped for anything from law school to big 4 to banking or politics. He loves it and I’m still confident that going down the straight history / English / geography / economics route at a well regarded uni is the safe option to keep doors open if they’re not STEM focused.

LurpakAspirations · 26/07/2022 22:27

@Holidaydreamingagain absolutely agree.
Those subjects still valued highly by employers and can prepare for a range of careers. They're also accepted pre-reqs in a wide range of postgraduate studies, even if the student wishes to specialise or switch careers. And let's face, most people will be doing the latter in the future.

jesusmaryjosephandtheweedonkey · 26/07/2022 22:27

Was always told if you are unsure what degree to do then do English

clary · 26/07/2022 22:33

jesusmaryjosephandtheweedonkey · 26/07/2022 22:27

Was always told if you are unsure what degree to do then do English

That’s a slightly unusual piece of advice. English is a good idea if you love reading and analysis of literature. Not so much if not.

easyday · 26/07/2022 23:01

Mine not a uni yet but a friend's son just left with History degree, took it because he liked the subject. His intention has always been to join the marines so is in the process of that. Not sure what he'll do if he doesn't make it.
I started on an animal science degree but realised it wasn't for me and dropped out after a year. I then did graphic design as I wasn't good enough artist snd worked as an art editor in publishing.
My daughter plans on doing animation to become, wait for it, an animator!
My husband did law and became a lawyer.
Another friend did Italian and French then did a journalism course and became a journalist.
If unsure he should choose what he's really interested in and not worry so much about his career afterwards. A lot can happen in three years, maturing and finding out about the world's opportunities!

Toosadtocomprehend · 26/07/2022 23:04

My son went to Lancaster Uni to study Environmental science…he is an ecologist…not brilliant money but he is passionate about his job !

thing47 · 27/07/2022 16:05

clary · 26/07/2022 22:33

That’s a slightly unusual piece of advice. English is a good idea if you love reading and analysis of literature. Not so much if not.

Agree with @clary, very odd advice. The thing with studying English is that you have to enjoy not reading so much as analysing – pulling apart texts to the nth degree to look at language, characterisation, plot, style of writing etc etc. I love reading but in-depth analysis of text doesn't appeal at all. DH has English degrees and works as a writer so I have a good idea of what it entails.

thing47 · 27/07/2022 16:16

As regards OP's question, DS did 2 years (out of 4) before deciding university wasn't for him. Now works full time in the same industry in which his degree would have been! Go figure. So it probably was the 'right' degree in that sense, he just didn't enjoy the studying.

DD did biomed, chosen because she was passionate about biology and chemistry (and particularly the crossover between them). But realised during her placement year that she wanted a slight change of direction – towards research rather than practice. So she did a Masters at a specialist post-grad school which entailed conducting original research using equipment they don't allow under-grads anywhere near. She's now working in a related field and looking into PhDs.

@LimitIsUp I would gently suggest that if your DS is struggling to decide what he is passionate about doing, he might be better off working/volunteering/travelling first rather than rushing to university.

GnomeDePlume · 28/07/2022 11:13

Something I would advise is really reading course descriptions. Many courses have the same title but the devil is in the detail.

Approach course which cross schools with caution. DD2 has had to invest a lot of time in getting lectures/labs/tutorials/exams rescheduled as timetables clashed.

Xenia · 28/07/2022 17:39

For my 5 graduate children it was favourite A level subject really (4 are lawyers or almost lawyers now but did not read law at university). Also they wanted to go to fairly hard to get into universities so that was a factor too.

StressyYetMessy · 28/07/2022 20:31

DS hasn’t gone yet (just waiting for results).

Initially he was adamant he wanted to do a degree apprenticeship… but didn’t know what he wanted to do career wise (and was not doing any STEM subjects at A level). He realised that for him that path wouldn’t really work…

So he applied to do his favourite subject, politics, on the basis a good degree from a decent uni would keep doors open.

He looked at Hull’s BPLS course, due to the guaranteed year in Westminster but decided, having had a long chat with current students and a lecturer, the legislative stuff was not going to set his world alight (despite loving the idea of the placement year). After his in depth chat he decided politics and IR was more his thing and, in his PS, wrote about books he’d read that had interested him, eg politics of geography series (I think that was the title), a few online lectures he’d watched, why he enjoyed his a level course etc.

He applied for a few RG, a ‘good’ non RG, and two slightly less prestigious unis as backup. He got offers from all and put Lancaster as his form, Hull as insurance with an unconditional (I wonder if having such a long conversation with the lecturer who was also admissions officer, accounted for the unconditional). He had a really good vibe from both places. He said it was a tough call, but put Lancaster first as it was higher up the tables and, as he doesn’t know what he wants to do afterwards, would keep more options open.

I found it really interesting as when he chose his a level options we were really surprised that he picked politics. He hadn’t shown any interest up until that point and we, as his parents, were not really sure it would be very ‘him’! But it turned out to be his favourite a level.

LynetteScavo · 30/07/2022 09:38

DS did a BTEC a subject he was very interested in at the time, he then went on to do a degree in the same subject, because it was expected of him and I think he was pretty much told at colleague he wouldn't be accepted on to courses in other subjects. He left university with no interest in that subject and is trying to pursue a career in a totally different area. I think if he'd gone to uni a few years later he would have enjoyed it more because he would have done a course he was actually interested in.

DS2 has no idea what he wants to do- he initially took a year off- he still has no idea what he wants to do, but I don't think there is any point on doing a degree just for the sake of doing g a degree. Three years is a long time so you may as well study something you at least enjoy

Sadik · 30/07/2022 09:49

I'd definitely agree that it's much better to wait if dc aren't sure what they want to do.

Especially at the moment when there's absolutely no shortage of jobs around they can work & put money aside, travel, volunteer etc and then either go to uni (or not) once they've got a better idea of what they want to do in life.

TizerorFizz · 30/07/2022 10:08

@LimitIsUp
Sorry if I missed it, what A levels is he doing?

Env Science is best accessed with Maths, Biology snd Geography. You don’t have to be passionate about a subject to do it at university. Someone I know is on for a first in it and never does 1 second of any supporting activity outside of their degree. No volunteering or vacation work linked to the subject which I find odd. However jobs will probably come.

My advice is that it’s better to do Geography if he’s taking it.,It’s a broader degree and in lots of universities, has environmental options within it. You don’t need to think of a career first either. You can make up your mind as you go along.

Yes, a year off might help but that would depend what he did with it.

TizerorFizz · 30/07/2022 10:12

Forgot to add: one DD did MFL and that was right for her. Other DD did a degree in fashion and that was a mistake in some respects. However she’s not paid 1p of the loan back. She was sure of what she wanted at 18 but it’s turned out to be a poor choice and she’s now retrained.

CharlotteOH · 30/07/2022 10:43

What I did:


  • a degree in obscure general arts thing irrelevant to all careers because I thought it would be easy (it was)

  • science/engineering because then I’d actually know real stuff not just ancient philosophers musings, or

  • English / art because publishing companies require it for some fun jobs, or

  • psychology because as an adult it opens doors to lots of things I’m interested in, or

  • coding because there are so many jobs in web development, or

  • art/design so I could do freelance book cover design, or

  • economics/politics because there are some great jobs in think tanks etc


Basically the biggest danger to avoid is spending 3 yrs studying something useless. Do an in demand degree that employers love.

bigTillyMint · 30/07/2022 14:02

He needs to go to uni open days with an open mind!

Both my DC were unsure what to do, and were considering an Alevel subject they were doing. We went to uni open days at the beginning of Y12.

DD said she was interested in another subject (not one she was doing at Alevel) and we went to a talk - she did that for her degree!
DS realised he might not be able to do the subject he had been thinking of (because not doing a related subject) so we went to a talk for a different subject he was doing for Alevel - that’s what he did for his degree!

That said, uni might not be the right path for him, but he needs to look and find out more to know!

Lottie4 · 02/08/2022 15:10

DD wanted to study music for many years, even got a music scholarship. At the last minute, she realised that although she moved music, she perhaps didn't want to study and do it every day.

She's always enjoyed the human side of geography and studies Sustainable Development and International Politics. She's got one more year of a four year course to do, and seems very interested in other cultures. To be honest I can see her working for an aid charity in terms of helping and fund raising. She knows exactly where she stands politically and why, and comes across really well speaking, and I'm wondering if she might end up in politics - I've put this to her and it hasn't been rejected.

Her plan after uni is to work for a year (if only in a shop) and get some money behind her. She plans to use it towards a masters or a few months abroad, possibly on a voluntary basis for a charity or other option where she can gain more understanding of local communities/cultural issues in a certain area.

NotDonna · 02/08/2022 16:58

The beauty of the U.K. system of higher education is that you can absolutely follow a passion at degree level. My DH is Aussie and over there the degrees are more vocational, which is such a shame.