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Higher education

Talk to other parents whose children are preparing for university on our Higher Education forum.

Uni fees and expenses

89 replies

Bugsy73 · 19/06/2022 17:28

My daughter is going into yr 13 in September so is currently looking at uni's and planning the next stage. She would like to do a degree in primary education and currently wants to leave our home town to do so.
Clearly this is going to cost us 😂
How do people manage? The fees are covered by a student loan? How about accommodation and general living expenses? Do we just need to cut back on our outgoings? Take a loan out ourselves? We have a small amount of savings but don't think it will go too far.
My DH in particular has gone into a bit of a tailspin about it today.
Any advice/tips very welcome!

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Anothernamechangeplease · 19/06/2022 17:31

Assuming that you're in the UK, she will get a maintenance loan to help with her living costs. However, the amount that she can borrow will be determined by your income - if you earn above a certain threshold, she will be able to borrow a bit less and you will be expected to top it up.

Bugsy73 · 19/06/2022 17:37

Thank you. Yes, we're in the UK.

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ermagerdabear · 19/06/2022 17:37

She'll get a loan for the tuition fees and a maintenance grant for living costs which depends on your (parents) income. The maintenance loan is on a sliding scale, and they'll gets less the more the parents earns. For instance, my son is only entitled to the minimum maintenance loan which is about £4700 (or near enough that. It's about £9000 at the top). He's got a part time job at the moment and is saving to top it up before September and will probably also get a part time job at uni. We'll also help out as much as we can.

hockeygrass · 19/06/2022 17:45

@Bugsy73 , maybe join the WIWIKAU facebook page, it's has reams of info and is very active.

LIZS · 19/06/2022 17:52

Maintenance loan level is higher for London.

rwalker · 19/06/2022 17:56

Might be worth looking into see if it's worth dropping your income so he gets max loan .

Longtimenewsee · 19/06/2022 18:31

She will get a loan for her fees and then a separate maintenance loan for her accommodation and living costs. The most she can get for her maintenance loan is £9706 outside London (but more if going to a London uni). This £9706 is what a student whose parents are on a lower income can borrow. So it depends on your household income ( sliding scale) . If you are high earners, she can only get about £4500 and you then are supposed to give her your parental contribution on top ( ie to top it up to £9706) to make her on equal pegging as a student whose parents cannot afford to contribute at all.
Hope that makes sense
This is a v good guide-
www.moneysavingexpert.com/students/student-loan-parental-contribution-tool/guide/
and there is a calculator here:
www.moneysavingexpert.com/students/student-loan-parental-contribution-tool/

LilyPond2 · 19/06/2022 18:45

OP, do you live in England? Important to specify which part of the UK you're in for the purposes of getting accurate information on student finance, as I know there are differences between England, Scotland and Wales (-no idea how it works in Northern Ireland!)

Bugsy73 · 19/06/2022 21:15

Thank you all so much. That's really helpful. She will, I would imagine, be on the minimum end of the maintenance loan. We are in the North of England and I think she will want to stay North. Just sadly not in her own bedroom in her own house 😂.

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TeeBee · 19/06/2022 21:34

I'm having to top up my son's maintenance loan as he gets the minimum. In reality, this will barely cover his rent so I'm also having to pay a monthly allowance to him to cover living expenses.

OneFrenchEgg · 19/06/2022 21:39

I had a panic attack earlier today looking at the MSE calculator which says we need to top up by £15,000 over three years.
2023 entry.
We have too high an income for more than the minimum loan but no allowance for massive mortgage and other kids. I come is reduced by tax on car so take home is not as high as it looks.
Nothing spare, we live in a box in the SE, no pension contributions etc.
Not a clue - will have to somehow find the cash.

KangarooKenny · 19/06/2022 21:41

She gets a job and works all holidays, to begin with.
‘We paid the accommodation for ours. They lived in the loan and what they earned.

OneFrenchEgg · 19/06/2022 21:41

Tuition fees are covered by a loan, irrespective of income.
Rent and living are partly covered by a maintenance loan, income dependent.

User76745333 · 19/06/2022 21:43

Realistically we’ve been told that if you get the minimum maintenance loan the top up needed will end up being about £25k over a three year course. This is from various sets of friends whose dc aren’t living extravagantly.

Anothernamechangeplease · 19/06/2022 21:47

So just over £8k per year?

OneFrenchEgg · 19/06/2022 21:49

User76745333 · 19/06/2022 21:43

Realistically we’ve been told that if you get the minimum maintenance loan the top up needed will end up being about £25k over a three year course. This is from various sets of friends whose dc aren’t living extravagantly.

25k over 3 years ? That sounds like scaremongering. Who has that lying around even on 70k.

OneFrenchEgg · 19/06/2022 21:51

www.savethestudent.org/money/asking-parents-for-money-university.html#1

More like £18k over 3 years if that

User76745333 · 19/06/2022 21:52

just reporting bank what we’ve been told by families who currently have dc at university and are only getting the minimum maintenance loans. It’s costing them about £8k a year once everything is totted up

User76745333 · 19/06/2022 21:53

Obviously it depends on lots of things like choice of university, choice of accommodation, catered or self catering, amount of travel etc

OneFrenchEgg · 19/06/2022 21:59

Well, lucky for them they have a spare £8k net. It's ridiculous that on eg £70k gross families are expected to suddenly find £5k net a year minimum.

Lacedwithgrace · 19/06/2022 22:06

The maintenance loan if she gets the full amount will likely cover her rent + little spare. You'll probably have to top up with cash for food, nights out etc unless she has savings/ a job. Plus paying for things to furnish her student home e.g. cooking supplies, bedding, etc.

Maltester71 · 19/06/2022 22:07

I think you are supposed to save it up over a number of years, but nobody tells you about it in time.

I cottoned onto this quite by chance when DD was 12 years old. I opened an account and started saving religiously. She will have 22k when she (hopefully) goes to university next year - that can top up her minimal maintenance loan at £7,300 per year. I expect we will need to add something to it, or carry on paying certain things like her phone contract.

I started saving for DD2 when she hit 12, too. I will have had two years of saving for both of them, which has been hard.

I only found out because I bumped into somebody who warned me.

clary · 19/06/2022 22:08

£8k a year is ridiculous imho. Op we are medium earners (perhaps not in MN terms!) and our Dc get a loan around £7k. Both dd and ds2 were in low-cost uni accom for first year, no en suite bathroom and fairly basic, cost about £4-5k, so covered by loan. I have topped up with a weekly dd of £30 each which seems to have worked ok.

It sounds a lot but when I factored in reduced other costs (for dd, ballet class, music lessons, Guides, various school trips, shows she was in, all of which she no longer does) I came out better off tbh. Ds2 eats LOADS and I can really notice I buy less food when he is not here, so there are savings for you.

some students seem to demand the most £££ accom (at ds2’s uni there are halls where the annual fee is £8k plus, catered but still!) but I said to them that that wasn’t an option.

middleofthelittle · 19/06/2022 22:09

She will need to get a part time job too....

I didn't know anyone unless from a well off family who didn't work and study.

My loan was for rent. My basic bills (phone bill and £30 weekly shop) was covered by £35 a week from my parents.

My job paid for my social life and clothes.

I would suggest a similar set up for your daughter :)

titchy · 19/06/2022 22:11

User76745333 · 19/06/2022 21:52

just reporting bank what we’ve been told by families who currently have dc at university and are only getting the minimum maintenance loans. It’s costing them about £8k a year once everything is totted up

Well it doesn't have to that's their choice. Top up the difference between the maximum and what they get - £5k a year, £6k if London. Perfectly ok for a student.