There’s something wrong with an educational system that has mothers behaving like a crowd of starlings squabbling over breadcrumbs.
I am reminded of the situation in South Korea or China, where children vie for a limited number of places in prestigious universities. The atmosphere of frenetic competitiveness surrounding all-or-nothing final exams is overwhelming. Some of the parents, particularly the mothers, make a profession out of getting their offspring into the ‘best’ schools. Their thoughts are consumed by this dream.
It’s not good for anyone’s mental health and it misses the point of what education should actually be about. I would far rather see a flatter hierarchy of universities and more of an emphasis on children being quietly and without fanfare signed off on competencies at school rather than so much riding on exam performance over a few highly stressful days. Let them be competitive in other ways if they wish.
Not enough decent courses to go round? The solution to that is investment and being non-elitist about alternative paths - not pitting children against each other. Nobody goes to Asda expecting to fight for a pack of profiteroles. Why do we put up with this sort of thing in the educational sphere?