H and I are estranged but still living in the marital home whilst our divorce creeps along at a snails pace due to him taking every opportunity to delay proceedings and the courts having a back-log.
H decided to opt out of the world of work following a covid related redundancy and I cannot see that he intends to work again in the forseeable future. Our assets are such that he could live on savings until retirement if he gets a large enough share of them.
Can I therefore fill in the financial info section in support of DC's student finance application as if I am a single parent, even though we are still in the same house and still married (court delays mean no decree nisi yet even though it has been 8 months since petition was filed) because he won't move out ?
DC has rightly put just me down as a parent who will be supporting him so I've put my 2021 information in but worry that studentfinance will want H's info too, even though he has had no earnings now for over a year and has no intention of supporting DC at Uni from his share of our assets.
On a more mundane note, the application asks for my gross salary and then asks for pension contributions which it deducts from gross salary. Should I be including the gross amount of the pension contributions (as I do on my tax return) or the amount net of tax ?