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Last uni experience was crap, why am I doing it again?

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DonkeyDobbler69 · 29/12/2021 18:37

I graduated from university in 2019 November just prior to the pandemic in nursing related studies. I have graduated with the diploma level training; enough to be qualified and work but I always told myself I wanted to do more and gain my degree. Last time I had to move for university into a shared house and it was awful and my confidence for one or two things, just completely vanished; and I developed depression.
I’m now married and living with my husband; after working for 2 years during the pandemic included. My circumstances are entirely different now and I have the support of my husband who was my long distance boyfriend at the time i finished my diploma. He is in full support of my finishing what I feel I must but last time I went to university I came home with the worst mental health i have ever had.
This course is classed as a top up and i will be doing it mainly from home but occasionally travelling to the university for lectures or events. I am extremely nervous that my mental health will take a hit again. The anxiety I developed the first time around meant that I didn’t touch assignments till the last possible minute and worked all hours of the day building up extra hours when I didn’t need to. I was required to work 3000 hours across the 2 year period and I racked up 3600.
My mindset is entirely different now and I have a more positive outlook since working and finding my passions. However, I’m very nervous to start and would like to ask if anyone has any supportive advice they could pass on?

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UpturnedUmbrella · 29/12/2021 18:44

This is exactly what happened to me in the first year of my uni course (except I suffered from anxiety not depression) I turned it round the second year by planning to the day when I would work on assignments and making sure this was months in advance to when they were to be due. I would make a rough draft for every assignment at the start of the year no matter when they were due I would work on these every week to ensure even at the first mention of an assignment check I had already done at least 50% of the work. Aside from this I also made sure I took a day off completely every week and if I felt myself slipping (mentally) because I had already done the work necessary I could then take breaks when needed. I hope you have more success with your top up year! I’m sure you will do great!

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