Bit of a thought dump so bear with...
DS needed ABB but got ABC. Decided to have a gap year but after a few days felt he really wanted to go to Uni as he didn't want another year at home. By the time we looked, clearing was limited but he found a course he liked, in a city he really likes. He struggles socially but has a lot of sporting interests in this city which I hope will help him with friendships and give him a focus outside his studies.
The grades asked for on this course however are lower than what he achieved BCC/BBC (probably CCC during clearing). We know he would have a strong change of offers in 2022 from some more highly ranked universities. However the downside of these are they are in cities he isn't so keen on in terms of location and they lack his sporting interest/activities. He'd also need to have the gap year he is not keen on having. He's spent a lot of time in his room since A Levels stopped in May and although he would look for work/volunteering I worry he may get even more socially isolated after 12 months more at home.
He seems happy to go to the clearing offer but I worry he is not at the best uni for his grades. But given all the pros and cons of both options am not sure this is the main concern anyway.
Just wanted thoughts whilst I mull this over in my head and try to stop over worrying and over thinking (the whole clearing process has been stressful, alongside a few other issues, and so I am feeling quite anxious over it all and another perspective would be helpful).
Thanks.