My son is in his first year at uni. He hasnt enjoyed it at all. He finds the work really hard and he hasnt really made friends given all the restrictions. He says he works all the time and spends all his time in his room.
Weve been talking about him going back (it seems optional?) and he doesnt really want to. Hes not one to talk about his feelings but tonight he admitted that he feels like theres no point to life and there have been times he felt he would definately kill himself if he didnt have any family who would be sad if he did it.
Weve talked about what he can do to make himself feel better including seeing friends, getting exercise, getting enough sleep ect but I think he should see the GP as well to possibly get medication and maybe counselling. I dont know what to think, I feel so sad for him but also it seems like its reasonable to feel depressed if your doing something you hate and you are on your own all the time. Weve talked about him possibly dropping out or switching uni but he says he wants to complete the year at least.
Has anyone elses' DC been through this? Im so worried.
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DSisSad · 23/04/2021 00:25
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