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DC at Scottish uni anyone?

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ifonly4 · 25/09/2020 15:20

Just wondering how they and you are?

DD has been finding the lack of socialising hard (she doesn't like being shut away from others generally and it's becoming a concern for her in general), ie it's limited as they're being careful. She's been on about coming back home to study (everything is online) and has even asked if there are any hours back home where she worked up until a week ago. Worried that she's going to feel trapped if she can't return home where she'll stay for the next few months. Hoping the student restrictions can really help in the next 2/3 weeks.

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legallady · 28/09/2020 18:07

@Uni2020 - the same thing happened to my DS 4 days after arriving at Pollock. Luckily the boy who had symptoms managed to get a test relatively quickly which came back negative. They were all released after 3 days as a result. Hopefully the same will happen to your daughter.

Anyone else with a fresher at Edinburgh, do they have a working academic timetable yet? My DS says his timetable isn't finalised yet which is a little frustrating to say the least.

LIZS · 28/09/2020 18:17

Dd is reporting that there are 55 cases across the Edinburgh uni community, not all in halls though. @Uni2020 apparently catering are providing food to heat up later. Your dd may find shecmeets those who share a pantry.

No they were not supposed to leave, some went home, others to hotels or stay with older students living out. Noone was preventing them. Most are back now.

LIZS · 28/09/2020 18:19

@legallady dd has a timetable. Busy Thursday/Friday less so on other days.

legallady · 28/09/2020 18:25

Thanks LIZS. I guess it will get sorted eventually. It just adds to the irritation of something else going wrong. DS seems to be fine with his first two weeks though, so I guess I just need to relax a little Grin

BrigitsBigKnickers · 28/09/2020 18:30

DD2 has just started at RCS in Glasgow. She is in a hall flat with 5 others who thankfully she has really hit it off with. They are having their own sort of mini - freshers in the flat and taking part in some on-line events such as quiz evenings.

She has one face to face singing assessment which was socially distanced but all the other stuff has been online including her dance assessment which she did in her kitchen!

I think there are reports of a COVID case at RSC just today but not a person in her hall. At 22 she is a little older than most first years and has lived away from home before so seems ok about it all but she is a very long way away from where we live in the South East. Just hope they don't get any more cases and she is totally locked down!

Uni2020 · 28/09/2020 19:40

@legallady my dd has a timetable now, but I think they can change options until two weeks into term, so hope your ds won't miss much.

ifonly4 · 29/09/2020 11:32

Thanks for your replies everyone, it's interesting to hear others experiences.

DD is still struggling, has spoken to her tutor and it's been suggested she gets support/counselling from the uni. Ideally I think she'd just come home, but have pointed out that just because numbers are low here at the moment, doesn't mean she won't find herself locked down with her parents at some point. Also, legally will she just be able to come home at the time.

LIZS so glad your DD made it to Edinburgh. Your DD sounds like mind and obviously many others out there, in that they're trying to do the right thing even though it's hard. Fingers crossed the situation improves. One of the girls DD is sharing with was in the room next door to her, so even if socialising is restricted, hopefully main can make good friends still.

GaribaldiGirl My DD had a fantastic time there last year, so I really wouldn't worry about it. The accommodation is expensive so obviously attracts those who can afford more, but the ones I met (had to spend a couple of days with DD after an operation) were really nice. DD just comes from an ordinary working class household, and it wasn't a problem.

Does anyone know if the restrictions were just for the weekend? DD wasn't sure if she could now meet others at a pub for a drink.

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LIZS · 29/09/2020 13:40

@uni2020, if it might help our dd is willing to get on touch with yours. Pm me if so.

ClerkMaxwell · 29/09/2020 13:51

@ifonly4: DS2 says the additional "hospitality" restrictions for Scottish students were for the weekend only so no longer in place.

MarchingFrogs · 29/09/2020 15:02

www.gov.scot/publications/coronavirus-covid-19-what-you-can-and-cannot-do/pages/students/

Appears to be up to date. I get the gov.uk 'Education and Childcare' updates, couldn't cope with any more. They're like the number 68 bus in London when I first lived there - never lost a one since they started sending them out in convoy, apparently...

Uni2020 · 29/09/2020 16:17

@LIZS, thanks that a very kind offer. I've just talked to my dd and she's feeling more upbeat today. Their wing was also released from self isolation as the suspected case of Covid turned out not to be Covid! She went to her first tutorial today and enjoyed meeting 'real' people. I hope Edinburgh keep up this face to face teaching! She's also getting to know the other students on her wing.

How is your dd getting on?

ifonly4 · 29/09/2020 18:15

ClerkMaxwell thanks. I spoke to DD earlier, a flatmate reckons the restrictions will be back next weekend. Either way, they're keeping to themselves (other than shopping) and trying to plan nice brunches and evening meals.

Uni2020 maybe it's for freshers, but DD is in second year and no contact at all. There's no easy answer to any of it though.

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LIZS · 29/09/2020 18:17

@Uni2020 pleased things are looking up for your dd.

dd seems ok at the moment, thank you. Should be at her tap dancing class now, online, pity her downstairs neighbour! She spoke with one of the girls she has previously been wary of earlier and think this situation is breaking down some barriers.

CraftyGin · 29/09/2020 18:19

My DD is at Edinburgh and fairly chilled about everything. She has one face to face seminar, with everything else online. When she has to do small group work, they will be able to find a study space that is socially distanced.

She and her flatmates get on well, and are just getting on with it.

LIZS · 30/09/2020 12:15

More cases at Pollock halls reported today. Whole of Ewing is currently locked down.

WickedGoodDoge · 30/09/2020 13:45

DS jus started at Edinburgh. He’s also in accommodation close to the Meadows (but by numbers, not the same one as ClerkMaxwell’s DC Grin ).

We met him for dinner last night and were relieved to find he’s having a fine time. He has 4 other flat mates- 3 girls and one other boy and 4 of them have hit it off really well and are socialising and cooking together (the last moved in Monday night from China so she’s just settling in now). He also avoided requesting Pollock Halls and from what he’s heard about it, it seems to have been the right choice.

The only issue he’s seen is that the common room is now shut although I was surprised to hear it had been open in the first place! Apparently at the weekend 10 students got together to watch a film, all socially distancing and all wearing masks- no food or drink. DS went down to do laundry and there were no problems. He went back down to put his wash in the dryer- still no problems. When he went down to pick up the dry clothes the common room had been shut and one girl was sobbing her eyes out being comforted by a warden. Seemingly several wardens came in and threatened the whole group with fines and being kicked out of the accommodation because there were more than 6 in the common room. There were no signs or emails limiting the numbers to 6 and this seems to have been a very heavy handed approach instead of just telling them to go back to their rooms.

He only has one in person session scheduled so far, everything else is online but he doesn’t seem to mind it- quite likes being able to pause a recorded lecture to take notes or think about what has been said before continuing with it. He’s also really lucked out with some great flat mates and says there’s plenty opportunity to meet other people outside in the Meadows or up Arthur Seat etc via group WhatsApp/email chat etc.

LIZS · 30/09/2020 14:06

@uni2020 dd now has had a class rescheduled, so two "live" classes now clash - aargh!

ClerkMaxwell · 30/09/2020 16:18

@ifonly4: I think your DD is right that there will be another student 'ban" on hospitality this weekend as numbers are creeping up. 127 at Edinburgh uni last I heard but not sure whether spread over lots of halls or concentrated.

@WickedGoodDoge: I know which halls your DS is in. It was one of my DDs picks and in a normal year my DD would have been able to use it's common room.

Uni2020 · 30/09/2020 17:32

My DD's wing at Pollock Halls has again been told to self isolate due to one student's symptoms. Hopefully they can get tested quickly!

CharlieParley · 01/10/2020 00:59

The ban on students going to hospitaliry venues was not a legal restriction. Even though the government and universities rather dishonestly presented it as one.

The FM clarified it was an ask, not a ban, on the 24th. As did Universities Scotland (see screenshots). Not until after the matter had been reported as a ban, of course.

This is because a ban on students doing something perfectly legal outside of university premises is outwith the legal authority of universities. And the Scottish Government cannot ban students from attending hospitality venues while allowing everyone else to go because that is a violation of their civil rights. Hence they clarified it was a request, not a ban.

I am certainly not telling my DC to break any actual legal restrictions. On the contrary, we have asked for responsible behaviour within the rules. And we also said that as socialising with a friend who isn't a flatmate in the halls isn't allowed, a nice café or restaurant or even a pub was perfectly fine to go to for company.

Unfortunately, we found pastoral care at university to be abysmal with our eldest and our fresher felt so isolated only a home visit helped that weekend. So, if you are worried about your child's mental health deteriorating under these difficult circumstances, I would also like to point out that the new regulations for students do allow home visits for wellbeing reasons. They might not ever have to fall back on that exception to the general ban on home visits, but my DC found the knowledge that the exception exists very reassuring.

The regulations are here.

DC at Scottish uni anyone?
DC at Scottish uni anyone?
WickedGoodDoge · 01/10/2020 15:38

DS just messaged to say 2 of his flat mates have bad symptoms so they are all isolating until the two can get tests done. I’ve offered to drop off food, medicine, whatever to them, but have been told they had just done a massive shop so seem well stocked/prepared. We’re not far away so have told him that if any of them need anything to let me know- am assuming I can drop stuff off at the reception but if needed (surely?).

CharlieParley · 01/10/2020 16:00

@WickedGoodDoge

DS just messaged to say 2 of his flat mates have bad symptoms so they are all isolating until the two can get tests done. I’ve offered to drop off food, medicine, whatever to them, but have been told they had just done a massive shop so seem well stocked/prepared. We’re not far away so have told him that if any of them need anything to let me know- am assuming I can drop stuff off at the reception but if needed (surely?).
Sorry to hear that, I hope they'll know soon and none of them get too bad. A flatmate of my DC got tested last Thursday or Friday and had the result by Saturday, so the turnaround seems quick.

As for dropping off supplies, that's what we were told. Which reminds me, it might be a good idea to get the number for the management office. Just in case this needs to be pre-arranged.

WickedGoodDoge · 01/10/2020 16:08

Thanks CharlieParley . This is such a strange uni experience for them all! Pre-Covid I’d been hoping DS would choose Edinburgh because I thought he would really like it, but didn’t think he would as he went to school in the city. With Covid I’m doubly glad he decided to go there!

CharlieParley · 01/10/2020 17:19

Well, I've just spent half an hour on the phone with DS trying to figure out the damn washing machine. Not coin but app operated. Only the app keeps saying that the machine is in use. Which, if you're standing right in front of it and can see it's not, is just ridiculous. If you could bag up frustration, we'd have a car full right now. That'll probably sum up the first month of uni. A seemingly endless supply of frustration.

LIZS · 01/10/2020 19:46

@uni2020 how is your dd coping in isolation?

Apparently dd 's "live" tutorial may be withdrawn and become a student based group. Suspicion is it is a way of cutting cost of tutors Hmm

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