Feeling a bit hacked off but not sure if i'm being unreasonable.
My DS2 has dyspraxia, he needs to use ICT for his studies and exams because his handwriting is illegible. He really struggles with organising and emails and phone calls make him anxious. This is all detailed in the report sent to the Student Disability Service.
Anyway, I contacted them originally in June to find out what he would need in the way of laptop etc and they told me not to buy one as it would almost certainly be funded. they'd need to do an assessment of his needs. fair enough.
They emailed DS to ask him to call to make an appointment. he didn't do it and didn't tell me. He then went away to Uni in the September. I did another email in September asking again about laptop recommendations etc. They said he hadn't made an appointment, agreed to send another email and I backed off thinking they would handle it and also because he had now turned 18 and needs to do things for himself. I made them aware again about the support that he would need and in particular that emailing him would be unlikely to get him to engage. If they'd just sent him an appointment, he would have turned up. He's actually a very amenable and compliant lad.
As the first semester exams approached, he finally listened to my prodding, got an appointment was cleared to use ICT for his exams and given forms to complete for the funding. We did the forms over Christmas holidays and he handed them in. At some point in February they asked him to clarify a number. We checked it and it was the number he had previously given. I asked him to chase up after a few weeks, which he did and was told the person was on holiday and not due back until 16th March.
That's now come and gone and still nothing. I appreciate that things are a bit haywire.
So, the deadline for funding for this year is 31st March so looks like he will lose out.
He's not had the support he's needed but has done well despite this but I'm still a bit annoyed given that the reason he hasn't had the support is part of the disability that he actually needs support with. I appreciate that DS is not blameless here either.
Is this normal?