DD who is just turning 18 inherited some money which she doesn't have full control of until she turns 21. She wants to fund her university fees with it, and part of her livings costs, so that she won't have to take out any loans.
She has a meeting with investment professional trustee very soon. At last chat he advised not to do so, as if she doesn't end up earning a good salary for a significant amount of years, such as by becoming a SAHM, she would never have to pay the loans back anyway. She felt undermined by this (and thought it was sexist) and pushed back; he said to discuss it once she has university offers (she does now) and a career plan for after graduation (not specifically, apart from that she wants a fulfilling one and always to work hard, as she does now). Ultimately she could pay off the loan in her 3rd year when she turns 21, but that will cost her thousands of pounds in interest payments.
My instinct is that ultimately it's her money and her reasoning is sensible, so to back her up. But the trustee said it's never worth paying uni fees up front and all home students take the loan. ("Even the children of millionaires.") DD's research leads her to think this isn't true, but I can't find much information on that. Any ideas, anyone?