From what I see from the students I work with, parents are far more involved now, at every stage, from what i experienced.
I went to all interviews alone, I chose my course on my own, I spoke to my parents maybe once a week, although often went longer. I did not expect or want them involved in my university life. I told them roughly what I was doing, when I was busy, but they didn’t know my deadlines, coursework results, timetables etc which seems to be more the norm now.
My halls were clean, tidy but simple. Shared bathroom between 6 and kitchen between 12, we all rubbed along ok.
I had a lot of contact hours, (engineering), and was always fairly busy, with some periods of very busy. Exams were quite tough, most 3 hours long. My arts friends did seem to have an easier life, much lower contact hours, less work to be handed in, whole days with no university commitments, I guess that’s similar now.
I think the main difference is that we didn’t feel like we were paying for a service and therefore deserved anything. The results we got were proportionate to the effort put in, and that was that.
I was the era of the first fees, £1000, which at the time stung a bit but now I feel was a good bargain! My degree pretty much guaranteed a job at the end so I wasn’t that concerned about loans and overdrafts. We all had them.
The students that I come in to contact with now seem to know how to play the system to get the best results, degrees seems to be more of a commodity than before.