Wow!
Not everyone can be right. Perhaps the diversity of views reflects both the diversity of applicants and the diversity of medical careers.
All I can claim is my own experience, which is pretty DD specific.
Her background is of a high achieving Central London private schools. 70% of A levels were at A*, most scientists took four A levels, some five, and almost half the year group went onto Oxford. It should have been straight forward. Take BMAT, because you have strong science knowledge, and head for Oxbridge/London. I suspect when there you would come across some equally well qualified peers from Goodbye Stranger's DS' high achieving grammar.
Except:
- DD is dyslexic and so performs relatively badly on timed tests like UKCAT
- She was seriously during the summer vacation and so missed the chance to go to Open days and decided to skip BMAT.
- Her learning style is different. She is practical, picks up on concepts quickly and has an extraordinary memory, but is not good at essays. She had no particular desire to go to Oxbridge, and indeed saw advantage in stepping away from a high achieving culture.
So we were back to the drawing board, with a DD who had to focus on simply getting into school when she could, and a school who were less familiar with application processes for some of the med schools DD was looking at.
Insights I gained were:
- It is not that simple. Lots will get four rejections each year, even with 4A* predictions. From what I can tell mumsneedwine's DD got both a very high UKCAT score, probably in the top 20% and came from a school ranking high on deprivation indices, while all of GoodbyeStrangers DC sound exceptionally bright and mature. It is therefore not surprising that both sailed through the process. In contrast, and in line with the school's experience, a couple of lovely and super bright friends of DDs got nothing first time round. (Interestingly despite one having a dad who is a serious big cheese in medicine.)
- Treat it as a two year process. It helps make the stress more bearable, and you will have a better chance with achieved grades, experience of the process, and an additional year maturity.
- Do your best to to nail the aptitude tests. If you can bear it, start early with UKCAT so you are utterly familiar with the format, and can perform it at speed. It is a speed test.
- Then look at your strengths. DD had pretty good GCSE grades, though not up to Oxford standards, high A level predictions, lots of EC, volunteering and work experience, but a weakish UKCAT and no BMAT. Here I would stress there is no such thing as an "easier" medical school.The aim is for the applicant to find medical schools which will be "easier" for them. If you qualify for a contextual offer look at who offers them. London Universities (in all subjects) can come at a bit of a "discount" as lots of good UK students won't apply, but Imperial will expect good grades/BMAT, and so on. A spreadsheet is the way to go!
- Read the Medical school website very carefully. If they use Personal Statements as part of the initial filter, make sure you have demonstrated and evidenced every skill and competence required, as it will be scored. It does not matter if it ends up a bit stilted, you need to tick the boxes. DD started with the selection criteria, made a list and then turned it into an essay. If they use the PS simply as a conversation starter at interview write something interesting, but obviously make sure you can expand. I believe that it is important to do your best to learn as much about a medical career through volunteering and work experience, as you can, primarily so you know what you are letting yourself in for, but also because being able to talk enthusiastically about first hand experience at interview is an advantage. (DDs school were pretty strong on this, saying even Oxbridge wanted a lot more than straight intellectual horsepower.)
- The "best" medical school....here I am tempted to repeat some of the tales that come out of Swindon which hosts both Oxford and Bristol clinical students. Suffice to say both groups think they are "better", when in reality the Oxford students will have more science learning, and the Bristol one are able to hit the ground running in terms of patient communication, team work and learning on the job. Sadly I understand that the two groups barely socialise, which is weird as they could end up working alongside each other in the future.
The debate sounds eerily familiar. Central London parents fret incessantly about the "best" nursery, the "best" prep, the "best" secondary. When I was waiting for my 13 year old DD to emerge from a sports changing room, one of her peers asked me how she had done in the Maths challenge, and then asked how it was possible she had got a gold as her school was not as academic as Putney High or Godolphin, and certainly not as academic as St Paul's Girls which is where this girl was. DD had a bit more of the same when some of the girls with Oxbridge places started to detach themselves for friendships with those who were not going to Oxbridge. (In both instances I would look to the level of parental pressure on these girls to achieve, and the linking of performance to self-worth.)
Medical schools and medical careers are long term games. We chose DDs 11-16 school because we thought it would suit her, and because of its dyslexia support. And assume that they took her because they were content that despite her very spiky profile, she would thrive. We felt the same about medical schools. It was not about "the best" but the best for her. The practical, group working approach suits her. I get the point that some courses offer more science, but DD is more likely to learn through observing, and because she is loving her course. (Three years of essays would have been very difficult.)
I have recently met some high achieving young doctors and the advice from all three has been not to work too hard and have some fun whilst at medical school, because the pace only picks up once you qualify. As it is, if DD gets the seriously interesting intercalation that she has applied for, I think she will be as well qualified for her chosen specialisation at the end of her six years, as she would have been if she had gone to Oxbridge. More perhaps, because though her science knowledge may not be as broad, it will be deeper. There are always different paths to the same goal, and my observation is that "good enough" can sometimes be more sustainable and get you further, than trying to deliver to sky high aspirations.
This though is a weird London perspective. DDs close friend is the first in her family to go to University and is delighted to be at medical school, and wants to be a GP and will make a fantastic GP. DD's school was curious. Her friend's parents ran things, big things. Though she enjoyed it, she has no regrets about stepping outside this world of high aspiration and high achievement, onto a practical course, and would argue that being more grounded will make her a better doctor. Equally she can see why Oxbridge, including the proximity to research, might be a wonderful experience for others.
One tip is to read up on the intercalation options offered by medical schools. If you are interested in public health, think about Birmingham, child development Bristol etc. The option of an intercalation somewhere else can be a real advantage if you want the flexibility of changing track to a more academic or specialised branch of medicine.
And one last point. I hope teachers are not just telling girls to be "kind". The messages DD received were to be ambitious, to work hard, to focus, to be professional,and to believe that girls could achieve just as much as boys. "Kind" was something for yr2, but after that morphed into skills related to emotional maturity, including leadership. And yes, being made a prefect was seen as a real honour, obligation and opportunity for personal development. I cannot think that anyone would turn it down.