@sendsummer
Is it an excuse to be discourteous and immature because somebody questions your view and gives another equally accurate (or inaccurate one)?
It is actually the hypocrisy of your posts that is most amusing.
As you state, I first posted on here to challenge an opinion given by goodbyestranger and since then have had the following aimed at me, and others (in no particular order):
-GANFYD that is absolute bollocks
-GANFYD you're a bit uncool yourself
-gross immaturity and incontinence
-that's incredibly prejudiced on your part, to assume all schools do it as your own DCs' does!
-GANFYD ironically, I was a little surprised that you assumed everything was done in the way it's done at your own DCs' school
-I do slightly worry about the attributes of someone who holds themselves out as directly involved in med school admissions and yet who holds such spiteful views about a particular group (senior prefects). It doesn't send out a good vibe.
--a whole lot of very long very rude posts including quite bizarre ones about dull, nerdy, unpopular senior prefects (all senior prefects everywhere apparently) and justified those by saying how very knowledgeable you are and how lauded on a student website you are
-Can I just say that your latest posts display quite extraordinary immaturity, along with that same level of unpleasantness displayed early on in the post about a particular section of young people being dull, nerdy and unpopular.
(I would be grateful if anybody can point to where I am supposed to have said the things being perseverated on in this section?)
-GANFYD it's a somewhat rookie error to define competition by numbers alone! (although possibly changes her mind then as later posts "GANFYD seemed to imply that Imperial was the least competitive uni to get into for Medicine", so clearly was happy with my explanations when used to put down the achievements of another poster's child)
-GANFYD you do seem to have marched on here simply to announce your credentials as self-styled expert from another site supposed to be for students
-According to your own version, you post feverishly on a student website.
-You mentioned that you have a following on TSR
-then there's this very odd phenomenon of self appointed internet superstardom
(Again, would be grateful for the posts where I said any of this)
-I'm well able to sound like a teacher too mumsneedwine and recall posters on another thread suggesting that you yourself were being rather a playground bully
-mumsneedwine if you trog back to the other thread where other posters asked you to reign it in..... It wasn't me. I simply failed to roll over. You were a little more polite for a while.
I took from the tone and content of these posts that goodbyestranger would not have an issue with posts being replied to in a similar, robust nature.
Being unfamiliar with MN, I initially assumed her posts were trolling or a parody account, but I am assured by several people she posts in this manner on other threads, too.
So by all means suggest ceasing what had become frankly rather tedious exchange, which was also was not going to achieve anything as the self-awareness fairy was clearly on holiday with quite a few of her friends when some people's gifts were handed out!
But do not mistake my robust response to the type of comments made above with a lack of professionalism at work. Doctors are allowed to comment (indeed, would be expected to, professionally) when they see people behaving inappropriately or misleading others.
Having realised that some people actually DO believe that everything they say is correct and that fact plays no role in this, I had decided I would cease posting. I had already said to some of the people messaging me that I had no wish to derail the thread, nor to discourage other people from posting.
So if you have appointed yourself judge here, judge both people participating. Otherwise it seems to be you are merely demonstrating hypocrisy and cronyism. Or maybe you have knowledge that goodbyestranger lacks any form of professionalism and hence feel my behaviour should be held to a different standard to hers? If so, you would look less sanctimonious if you declared this information.