Anyone know if you have a right to see this from a school in your child. DS1's tutor is something of a cold fish (favours those from very affluent backgrounds it seems) and although his subject teachers are hugely supportive of his university applications I get the impression there is not much love lost between him and his tutor. As a parent can I ask to see the reference before it goes off? I would have thought he would be highly professional but I'd just like to reassure myself.